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Marylee Claudio
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So went to get the Jaz birth certificate but they said I have to do a dna test to put her dad on her certificate. How…

So went to get the Jaz birth certificate but they said I have to do a dna test to put her dad on her certificate. How long does dna test take ?? Or approximately. Because I don’t need to waste time on this. I want to get it over with because I really need to get her certificate ASAP!

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thood

❤️Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)

That’s crazy I’ve never heard of that before. Here the man just has to sign that he’s the father, (affidavit) no one does DNA test around here unless they simply just don’t know who the father is.

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thood

❤️Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)

@xomarylee, That’s so insane to me. I’ve never ever heard of that. You give birth they bring in the certificate you write out your babies name and you both sign it, then you take the hospital copy to vitals to get the real copy. Sorry you’re having a hard time over something so simple .

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

@thawkins, yeah for both my babies we signed some papers but to me they didn’t look legit and I didn’t get anything about s birth certificate .. just got a baby to right her name but I didn’t need to sign it

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thood

❤️Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (26 нед.)

@xomarylee, Yeah that’s super sketchy.

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kymjames2010

KymberlyМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

can you get the bc without him on it?

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

I don’t want it without him on it.. that’s their dad and without his name on it it’s as if i was in full custody.. Incase of an emergency he won’t be able to get his babies easy if something happens to me

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kymjames2010

KymberlyМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@xomarylee it was just so u have it now and then do the DNA test or whatever needs done . idk if it would be simpler or not. when I had my oldest my husband just had to sign the paternity affidavit at the hospital saying he was the father. i only had to do it that time cuz i was pregnant before we got married. i would Google paternity affidavit for ur state and see if u can get that just filled out without DNA test

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

@kymjames2010, yeah my one friend was telling me everything she had to go through to get a second one with their dads name on it.. they had to go through Columbus and wait a long time for it to be put in the system to print out the certificate the right way and I don’t want to through none of that

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

Yeah I don’t know anything about what an affidavit it.. I went it and got out when my first daughter’s certificate idk why they are making me take this route now

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penelope127

Penelope Мама сына-младенца

@xomarylee, it explains it in the link I gave, and the 3 options you guys have.

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lizibear84

Elizabeth HebertМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

In NJ if you’re not married, dad just has to sign an affidavit that he’s the father

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

Yeah we don’t know anything about that.. I had gone in first my first and got the certificate no problem

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briannalynn547

Brianna Montgomery Мама сына (1 год)

They didn’t make me do that🤷🏻‍♀️ we’re not married and he just showed his id, signed it and we never had an issue

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whtumean

Wht U Mean

They won’t let him just sign an acknowledgment of paternity?

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

I don’t know what that is.. never gone through anything. With my first we went in a got the certificate the same day she turned 2mos.. Jaz is going to be 4mos and they told me they can’t help me unless he does a dna

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whtumean

Wht U Mean

@xomarylee, hmm, weird. I know up here they offer the option to where the dad can sign a paper stating that he is the father

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xomarylee

Marylee Claudio Мама двоих (младенец)

@momtotwoo, yeah they didn’t give us any options. I explains to them how easy I got my other baby’s certificate and .. and they seemed bothered and told us “well we can’t help you unless you get the dna, if you don’t want to do the dna please if can step aside they are more people in line” 🙄😬

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So my “mother in law” wants me to get a DNA test,paternity test or whatever you’d like to call it done for my baby to…

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