Ladies what do y'all to prefer to be call Mother of my kids or Baby mama?
Call me by my name lol cuz only my youngest 2 have the same dad & I don't like being called BM by none of them. They can refer to me as their kid's mother, the youngest 2 dad can continue calling me "bae" or "mama"🤗 right now it's Big Mama😂🤰🏾
I feel like baby mama is ghetto and just disrespectful.
If I have kids with someone, I would prefer for them to say "Mother of my child(children)"
I don’t mind my bf saying I’m his baby mama and every one knows we’re together. But I wouldn’t let my oldest sons dad call me that, he can call me Sabrina and say I’m Ryders mother lmao. I don’t think any ex should say baby mama.
But he doesn’t say baby mama either lmao. I just wouldn’t get mad or annoyed if he did. But ya I’d prefer to be known as his girl.
Yea forget that lol call me Sabrina or your woman. I had to correct his brother on day he was on the phone and said my brothers baby mama I’m NO SIR I am his woman first correct that ish
@adventuresofa1sttimemommy, I have the same name lol. I don’t mind it, if we’re together. If we’re broken up he calls me by my name lol
My kids father we working shit out he thinks baby mama is cute I hate it. I feel like it's so rachet. He tells me I'm closed minded cause I don't like it. I'm ok with any females preference of what they want to be called I just DNT like being called that. Do y'all think that's closed minded
I prefer them just use my 1st name. My ex and husband don’t refer to me as anything else. They know better
I DO NOT like that term AT 👏🏽ALL. It’s ratchet and degrading ESPECIALLY if you’re in a relationship or had a relationship. I call the mother of my Bf’s children his ex WIFE because that’s what she is not no damn baby mama. He says ex or “the kids mom”. I also don’t allow people to call me a baby mama or him my baby daddy sounds so ignorant. I’m his woman first. Like someone said I’m not here to just make babies