Am I the only person who doesn’t think it’s right for people to share news that isn’t theirs? It really bothers me.
Am I the only person who doesn’t think it’s right for people to share news that isn’t theirs? It really bothers me.
Am I the only person who doesn’t think it’s right for people to share news that isn’t theirs? It really bothers me.
Rubiaxo·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I'm with you on that one. When I got my period at age 9 or 10, my mom told everyone! When I had my first boyfriend she told everyone, when I lost my virginity to my kids father , she told everyone 🤦🏼
LEO Wifey·
It is bothersome. Hubs and I just opt to not share with anyone until we're ready for it to be public. No one has a right to know our personal info in the first place so us sharing it at all with them is a privilege.
His mom the other day tried getting him to tell her our baby-to-be's name. He wouldn't and said we aren't sharing it with anyone until kid's born. She said "I bet your wife has already told people". Which pisses me off to no end. He just deadpan told her "I guarantee she hasn't." Thank God for him. But anyway, she feels entitled to information that is personal to us. I refuse to bend to her desires. I'm not gonna tell her things I haven't even told my own mother or dear sister. I'm much closer to them than I am to her. Just irks me, the entitlement.
Courtney Z··
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
See I would totally give them a fake name except knowing my in laws they'd start getting a bunch of monogrammed or shit with their name on it. We dont share the names we are even considering with anyone!
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@leowifey, my FIL didn’t like my son’s name at first and literally responded with “haha very funny” when we shared his name.
Courtney Z··
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
omfg I probably would have lost it. Although I give them all crap because they are big on naming their kids after family so I joke that they have 5 names between them all that they just rotate around. Hard pass.
Marilu·
Мама троих детей
We were having a gender reveal but we told a few people at work, and to keep it quiet, because we didn’t invite them. By the time we had it put together and had our family over everyone knew because someone at work told my BIL and he told everyone else. Made me so angry.
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
That’s insane. I would’ve lost it. That’s how I felt when I found out that my MILs friend from high school was spreading our very personal business around my old county up in NY. He thought it wouldn’t get back to us however he ended up telling my best friend from high school’s dad and even inserted his very nasty opinion which made its way back to me. She still claims she doesn’t know how he could’ve gotten the information but I’m very clear on how it made it’s way to him.
Marilu··
Мама троих детей
I trust no one. Even someone trustworthy will tell at least one person and that one person might tell 10 others. People 🤦🏼♀️
Courtney Z·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
I had to have this conversation with my husband bc his family thinks your entire medical history needs to be table conversation. They dont know about either of my D&Cs or the miscarriage. The less they know the happier I am!
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
that’s the key. At the end of the day we just want our kids to be happy, healthy and respectful of others and themselves. His mom has been known to say things here and there about if our house is cluttered or things are dirty and it pisses me off because she had help. She had her mom, mother in law and a housekeeper when my husband was growing up. My husband works really long hours and I do it alone most days. It’s just uncalled for.
Courtney Z··
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
when things are different they have to make comments or judge. Like I see what the outcome of your way was, let me give mine a shot haha!
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
I told her, I’ve seen your work.
Ss3mom·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
Yea no one should be sharing personal news that isn’t theirs to share
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
My MIL also told all of her friends when I had surgery to remove my IUD which left me mortified because I feel like she invited so many people into my uterus. I barely told my dad because I’m not comfortable sharing things like that. It’s just so frustrating.
Ss3mom··
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
yes that’s wrong
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Some people do not know or are just chatty. Sorry
#1Mommy·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yes that’s my business to share .. like I was soo mad wen I was pregnant with my first my sister blurted it out all loud but only one person heard and she told her mom and her mom told everyone in the damn family I was soo mad ..
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
That’s fucked up
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Personal news?
Mish··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)
Yeah. My husband got a new job after 10 yrs at the same company and he doesn’t even know if he’ll stay there yet. His first day is on Monday and his parents are telling everyone in the family after we waited to tell them because, again, we were unsure.
#1Mommy··
Мама дочки-младенца
omg I hate that.. every time I get a new job or my sis does my mom starts telling EVERYONE like why the hell does it matter why do u care get out my business