Idk if I did wrong in sending my mother in law a msg saying that with all due respect I would like…
Idk if I did wrong in sending my mother in law a msg saying that with all due respect I would like to isolate myself from them because I’m hurt that she has the nerve to ask for the kids but doesn’t bother talking to my bd about how he’s wrong in so many ways. He chooses material things over his kids first & the fact that she Doesn’t say anything to him about that hurts me. He hasn’t asked about his son for over 2 weeks now etc etc. I’m not about to deal with this toxic stuff
Celia C·
I believe you did right. Of course your mil is not going to say anything to your bd cuz that’s her son.
Jocelyn··
Exactly. It’s sad that she knows he’s wrong in a lot of things yet doesn’t bother talkin to him about it at least. He’s grown enough to know better as well tho 🤷🏽♀️
Celia C··
I don’t blame you one bit girl. That’s the way our mil wants to raise their sons.
Celia C·
My mil is the same way too. She would rather defend her own kids even if they are wrong. I find it so annoying.
Melissa ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I don't think its right to keep them from her bc he's screwing up. Plus that's their gma. If she did say something to him would it make a difference?
Shayla·
I know how you feel! I’m in the same position in a way.. My daughters father isn’t in her life! He has only seen her twice since she’s been born. One of those times is because of child support court! His mother lives 3 hours away from me and my daughter so I don’t necessarily expect her to see my daughter much, but I would think that the both of them would have more involvement with my daughter than they do. I have given up on her dad having any involvement in her life, but his mom texts me every blue moon🙄. It bothers me for many reasons. 1. Because I know she talks to her son every day and I don’t know if she pushes him to be apart of my daughters life or not. 2. She is obsessed with her other two granddaughters that he takes care of so I would think she would be the same about mine. 3. She says the same thing every time she texts which is I’m thinking of you guys, I have to do better reaching out, I love y’all and blah blah blah!! She has promised to FaceTime my daughter and all this other crap and still Nothing! So I definitely get it. It makes me not want to hear from her at all because I feel like you’re just sending a text to make yourself feel better and I don’t appreciate my daughter being half assed “cared about”! It’s either you care or you don’t! But what I tell myself is to kill her with kindness. Every time she texts, I respond back nicely and I even will send her a picture or two of my daughter even though I don’t feel she deserves it! But I think about my daughter in the end. I want her to know I tried my best, and I kept all communication lines open for her dad, and his mom. Whatever they do or don’t do is on them. But if they are going to do the bare minimum then they have to live with that and my baby will know that mommy gave 100% for her no matter what the situation was or how mommy felt! God will fight my battles and yours too! You will be the bigger person in the end and they won’t have no choice but to respect you and your babies for that! I always want to know that I did everything I could! It will eat at them for sure, especially if you were always doing things in the best way!