My first was unplanned c-section. My second was a gentle vbac with an epidural at almost 6 cm. My vbac was great other than I tore and the doctor overstitched me making sex very hard until my husband and I accidentally re-tore down there 2 months post delivery. Apparently some doctors think that over stitching a tear is appreciated by women who deliver vaginally. I didn’t because I almost needed dilation therapy when my husband and I first got married AND after my 8 week recovery from my c-section.

Both mine were! No tears for either but that could be because my babies were small