A pan, tilt and zoom monitor right off the bat. Now that hes in a big boy bed id like to be able to pan the room and see where he's at qhen he gets up or even just see him.better since the video monitor i have now is crap and everything is the same dhade of blue🤦‍♀️

For my oldest I wish I would of got more blankets but now with my second I’ll have plenty because now I know.

My children seriously had everything... but all they wanted was me... frm rockers to all kind of swings and seats and i mean you name it they had it. The only diffrence was with my second the baby carrier was a lifesavor! My son loved being with me non stop and in order to get things done that helped alot... also my suggestiong is dont go over load on clothes i did with both kids not gona lie and both kids got clothes frm people as well and they never wore any of it .. they grew so fast tht they didnt get a chance to wear it .

With my first it was a baby wearing wrap. He was small and couldn't fit in regular carriers and he wanted to be held constantly. This time I got one already and with a nearly 3 year old to care for too I'm sure it will be a lifesaver to keep her on and still be able to use both hands. I also wished I had bought more pajamas instead of other clothes. We were home 90% of the time and it was silly having a bunch of "going out" clothes that weren't easy to put on.