No harsh but how you word it and how supportive you are matters.
When you said "try some therapy maybe it would relax you" what was the context? What type of therapy did you have in mind? What did you mean by it? Those things matter. If I was told the same thing I'd be upset. Because therapy for me as never been relaxing. Trips to get my nails done, spa days, massage; those are relaxing. I'd definitely take offence to the statement. Also I'd be mad because often times friends share their struggles for validation or as a way to air out their problems. People aren't often looking for solutions unless they ask directly "so what do you think I should do?". Just my opinion. 🤷♀️
It is all in the delivery of the message... of the person disagrees and can’t self recognize they need it they will most likely be offended and angry no matter how you say it. Good luck
I tell my parents so they know what I go through but they will never see what they put me through at all I have depression anxiety ppd PTSD and they dont believe me
Plus not gonna lie there marriage needs it and my dad needs it
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (7 лет)
? Like telling them they may need help?
Ariel iris··
I said try some therapy maybe it would relax you
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (7 лет)
oh, so you have already suggested? I thought you were looking for ideas. Lol
Ariel iris··
lol already did
CJ ·
Мама сына (6 лет)
No Its Not Harsh You Just Being Real. My Mother Tell Me This Everyday Because She Know I’ve Anger Build Up And I Suffer From Depression
Sorcha·
No harsh but how you word it and how supportive you are matters.
When you said "try some therapy maybe it would relax you" what was the context? What type of therapy did you have in mind? What did you mean by it? Those things matter. If I was told the same thing I'd be upset. Because therapy for me as never been relaxing. Trips to get my nails done, spa days, massage; those are relaxing. I'd definitely take offence to the statement. Also I'd be mad because often times friends share their struggles for validation or as a way to air out their problems. People aren't often looking for solutions unless they ask directly "so what do you think I should do?". Just my opinion. 🤷♀️
Krystal·
Мама сына (5 лет)
It is all in the delivery of the message... of the person disagrees and can’t self recognize they need it they will most likely be offended and angry no matter how you say it. Good luck
Ariel iris··
Thanks it’s that the person is putting everyone thru it everyone’s try’s to help but nothing works
Lucky Mommy ·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
I tell my parents so they know what I go through but they will never see what they put me through at all I have depression anxiety ppd PTSD and they dont believe me
Plus not gonna lie there marriage needs it and my dad needs it