I'm so worried about coping after having this baby. Dad is super excited to say the least and his family is 10xs worse than him. Meanwhile all I can think about is if I made the right choice having another child right now. I mean don't get me wrong some days I'm happy and can't stop pintersting nursery themes. But other days I look at little babies out in public with slight disgust, like gross I have to deal with boogers and diapers again 😂🤣 wtf is wrong with me 🤔
🤣 glad I'm not the only one who feels that way about other kids sometimes. And I hope that's all it is.
Correct me if I'm wrong but wasnt there a user that was drugging their baby with tylenol or Benadryl to get them to sleep all day?
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
School fees
Having an intense debate on Facebook about school fees for public school. I'm in the "stop whining about school fees and stop having kids if you can't afford them" camp and there is the other camp of "free school is a constitutional right! It's bull s*** we have to pay anything at all".
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I think it is just all part of it the second time round... you know how hard it will be so there is no disillusionment. Worring about how you will manage just shows that you care. Also imo other peoples kids are gross... unless they are really cute!