Is it wrong for me to break up with my boyfriend for sleeping on the couch 4 nights in a row? He says it’s not a big deal and he’s just tired 🙄
But it pisses me off. We should be sleeping in the same bed. And he knows it makes me mad yet he continued to do it so that’s y I’m fed up
My husband has been sleeping on the couch for most of the past two years. 😂 But That is because our son likes to kick him or snuggle him and he can’t deal with it. At times I miss the cuddles but I do not miss his freaking snoring. 🤷🏼♀️ I think I would try to express how important it is to have him sleep in your bed first personally and wouldn’t break up if that was the only issue. But that is just me. You do what is best for you lady! 😊
majority of the time “he’s tired” and I also know I snore and I be all over him
Breaking up with him for that seems a bit extreme. Talk to him again.
If you can break up over a reason like that. Definitely don’t get married, you’d be divorcing him as soon as the honey moon stage is over.
In a serious note my husband hasn’t slept on our bed for over a year. Both my kids are in bed with me.
It’s not like he just decided one night to not sleep with me. He be doing this ALL the time
@lakota-winyan, @massmomma16, so I can have a marriage where we don’t sleep together??
@lakota-winyan, @massmomma16, why is that ok for him not to sleep with u for a year? That sounds like disconnect
yeah some nights I’ll fall with him on the couch until a kid wakes up looking for me.
It may be for him and that’s something you should look into and work on. Marriage and relationships isn’t always going to rainbows and unicorns. But if you’re willing to throw away a relationship over not sleeping in same bed for 4 days it’s likely you’re relationship needs a lot of work.
it’s definitely more than 4 days. It was just 4 days out of THIS week but he does that shit all the time. And our relationship DOES need a lot of work
my husband used to do it all the time. he worked til 11-12 at night, play his video games or watch tv and fall asleep. if it bothers you so much why don’t you go get him to come to bed? to me that’s a stupid reason to break up.
Only you know how much you put up with and you can only put up with so much of your husband disrespecting your wishes or feelings.
I mean I wouldn’t. My husband sleeps downstairs on the couch sometimes because he works nights and gets wired sometimes. He takes the baby down so I can get sleep and then He comes up maybe around 4-5 am and sleeps with me. But if it’s an issue communicate that. It’s not much of a dealbreaker for me.
@amouryaya09,@boymamachronicles, Ughh maybe I’m doing too much. It just bothers me. I guess I’ll think about it
@lizology27_bb, Thank you! Lol I guess I’ll think about it since everybody thinks I’m overreacting 🙄 @mamaste,
@lizology27_bb, he doesn’t have any health issues although he did try to lie and say his stomach hurt 😂
he doesn’t have to have any health issues. I was just giving you an example. I used to be irritated but I can be irritated with myself bc I didn’t say anything. Be more assertive. Tell him how he’s making u feel. Your man will not want you feeling any type of way bc he’s ur man and he loves you.
@boymamachronicles, I think it’s stupid if it was like sum that just happened one day or every now n then but if my man is sleeping on the couch every night it sounds like a problem. Like that sounds like something divorced, unhappy couples do - or when somebody’s cheating @massmomma16, @amouryaya09,
yikes! idk how much he’s sleeping on the couch, at a point i would get fed up too but I love him too much to leave over something sooooo small. we don’t go to sleep mad at each other so it’s not a fighting problem over here. does he not like the bed? or do y’all argue before bed or something?
Then ask him if he is happy. Ask him if he’s cheating. Let him know how you are feeling with him sleeping on the couch every night. Maybe he don’t know. We are talking about a man. They never get things right the first 50 times and many times need to be reminded
It really depends on the dynamics of your relationship. Just like how some couples can survive without having sex. You find other ways to connect.
@amouryaya09, lol but y’all have the ultimate goal of getting back to bed together. I guess the other connections make u feel like he’s not sleeping with anybody else?
well yeah of course. But yeah the connect and many other reasons I know he’s not cheating. Lol
@kx2girlmommy, Fuck him @boymamachronicles, m. He better get his ass up and come listen to my snoring and get beat up in his sleep 😆 @lizology27_bb,
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Tips to getting my 11week old to sleep in his crib. He cries and has a fit forever he eventually quiets down but picks right back up last night I think he fell asleep for like an hour before he was back up crying again then I just let him sleep with me :/ ugh I should of never let him sleep with me to begin with but I just wanted some sleep and now that's what he is use too 😔
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Break up with him and put him out!