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Makenna
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Hey guys! So some people might remember in November i had emergency surgery they toke an ovary and my tube leaving me…

Hey guys! So some people might remember in November i had emergency surgery they toke an ovary and my tube leaving me with one left. I have cyst that grow to grow. Well 6 weeks after my surgery my only ovary started to grow one we’ve been watching it and it’s growing still. Well i found out i was pregnant on the 9th. I haven’t been to the doctor yet. I’m going to tour a birth center Monday if that goes well I’ll have an appointment in a week or two. Anyways my question is! I have a almost 2 year old. Then I’ll have a newborn. Would it be wrong if i was to get pregnant again immediately after the 6 week mark? I know this sounds crazy. But my doctor already said she wants to remove that ovary because of how much pain I’m in. I want a big family. Afterwards I’d be getting a full hysterectomy. Making me menopause at 22. If i was to have another baby it’d make me menopause at 23. That would be the end of me having babies for good. I just want other opinions! Mamas that have babies very close in age how did you do it?

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mommydutieskoko

🌹🌹MOMMY DUTIES 💜💜🌹🌹Мама четверых детей, беременна

Well my kids are close in age and no you won’t be wrong

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thekingsdaughter

ThekingsdaughterМама сына (1 год)

Girl if you want to big family have as many as you want. We have sex and I’ve had them as close as 18 months apart and I’ve had them as far apart as five years. You do what feels right to you

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ladyblauvelt

Allyson AlmedaМама двоих (младенец)

Well it's really all going to depend on how this pregnancy goes. If all goes well with this pregnancy and you have a normal vaginal delivery then you should be fine to conceive again that soon if you really wanted to. Taking on 2 kids that young is hard enough, I myself struggle daily with my boys but that's me. But, if something comes up and you end up having to have a csection for whatever reason, it's not recommended to conceive again that soon and your supposed to wait 12-18 months to be on the safe side and give your body the appropriate amount of time to really heal since your uterus after a csection can take a whole year to be back to normal and healed enough to carry again. Getting pregnant too soon after could cause uterine rupture.

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annekam1022

MakennaМама сына (1 год)

Yes i know! I’m hoping i have a healthy pregnancy and delivery! Thank you!!

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bill_nye_the_russian_spy

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Are you asking to have this pregnancy now and get pregnant right after sorry I’m confused lol

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bill_nye_the_russian_spy

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@annekam1022, I mean that’s up to you that’s your body and you’ll be the one to take on three kids so young but makes sense considering your getting a hysterectomy

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annekam1022

MakennaМама сына (1 год)

@boymom123, I’ve always wanted a big family and then close together! But we’ll see!

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bill_nye_the_russian_spy

AnnaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@annekam1022, as long as your giving your body the healing time it needs I say do what you want for your family

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