Hey guys! So some people might remember in November i had emergency surgery they toke an ovary and my tube leaving me with one left. I have cyst that grow to grow. Well 6 weeks after my surgery my only ovary started to grow one we’ve been watching it and it’s growing still. Well i found out i was pregnant on the 9th. I haven’t been to the doctor yet. I’m going to tour a birth center Monday if that goes well I’ll have an appointment in a week or two. Anyways my question is! I have a almost 2 year old. Then I’ll have a newborn. Would it be wrong if i was to get pregnant again immediately after the 6 week mark? I know this sounds crazy. But my doctor already said she wants to remove that ovary because of how much pain I’m in. I want a big family. Afterwards I’d be getting a full hysterectomy. Making me menopause at 22. If i was to have another baby it’d make me menopause at 23. That would be the end of me having babies for good. I just want other opinions! Mamas that have babies very close in age how did you do it?
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Girl if you want to big family have as many as you want. We have sex and I’ve had them as close as 18 months apart and I’ve had them as far apart as five years. You do what feels right to you
Well it's really all going to depend on how this pregnancy goes. If all goes well with this pregnancy and you have a normal vaginal delivery then you should be fine to conceive again that soon if you really wanted to. Taking on 2 kids that young is hard enough, I myself struggle daily with my boys but that's me. But, if something comes up and you end up having to have a csection for whatever reason, it's not recommended to conceive again that soon and your supposed to wait 12-18 months to be on the safe side and give your body the appropriate amount of time to really heal since your uterus after a csection can take a whole year to be back to normal and healed enough to carry again. Getting pregnant too soon after could cause uterine rupture.
Yes i know! I’m hoping i have a healthy pregnancy and delivery! Thank you!!
Are you asking to have this pregnancy now and get pregnant right after sorry I’m confused lol
@annekam1022, I mean that’s up to you that’s your body and you’ll be the one to take on three kids so young but makes sense considering your getting a hysterectomy
@boymom123, I’ve always wanted a big family and then close together! But we’ll see!
@annekam1022, as long as your giving your body the healing time it needs I say do what you want for your family
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Forgive me if this offends anyone but is it just me or does it seem like doctors are so quick to jump to c-sections these days? Even my midwife at 30 weeks said if my baby doesn’t turn (he’s transverse) I’ll have to have a c-section. Which of course put so many thoughts in my mind that I didn’t necessarily need because I still have ten weeks. I just don’t get it I guess. Technically we can go to 42 weeks.
No judgements pls, but I am absolutely petrified of giving birth (and also extremely squeamish). My whole life I always said when I got pregnant, I would have a c-section. Well, now that it's almost time, I have no idea what to do 😭 I would really love to talk to mamas who've had a Cesarean by choice.. I don't have anyone in "real life" to talk to about this at all and it's really getting to me.
(*ALSO* I have a pretty large dermoid cyst on my ovary that they want to remove during a c-section i...
My first post on this app hii my name is Yolanda im a ftm and I am 17 weeks due date August 30 and I am super super excited just wanted to say hii and meet new people I have 3 sisters but my baby will be the first so I do need someone to compare notes with lol I hate not knowing what is normal and what isn't well let me know who you guys are.
Well my kids are close in age and no you won’t be wrong