Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Forgive me if this offends anyone but is it just me or does it seem like doctors are so quick to jump to c-sections these days? Even my midwife at 30 weeks said if my baby doesn’t turn (he’s transverse) I’ll have to have a c-section. Which of course put so many thoughts in my mind that I didn’t necessarily need because I still have ten weeks. I just don’t get it I guess. Technically we can go to 42 weeks.
No judgements pls, but I am absolutely petrified of giving birth (and also extremely squeamish). My whole life I always said when I got pregnant, I would have a c-section. Well, now that it's almost time, I have no idea what to do 😭 I would really love to talk to mamas who've had a Cesarean by choice.. I don't have anyone in "real life" to talk to about this at all and it's really getting to me. (*ALSO* I have a pretty large dermoid cyst on my ovary that they want to remove during a c-section if I have one. If I have a vaginal birth, I may end up needing abdominal surgery a few months later anyways..)
My first post on this app hii my name is Yolanda im a ftm and I am 17 weeks due date August 30 and I am super super excited just wanted to say hii and meet new people I have 3 sisters but my baby will be the first so I do need someone to compare notes with lol I hate not knowing what is normal and what isn't well let me know who you guys are.
Anna·
Are you asking to have this pregnancy now and get pregnant right after sorry I’m confused lol
Anna··
@annekam1022, I mean that’s up to you that’s your body and you’ll be the one to take on three kids so young but makes sense considering your getting a hysterectomy
Makenna··
Мама сына (1 год)
@boymom123, I’ve always wanted a big family and then close together! But we’ll see!
Anna··
as long as your giving your body the healing time it needs I say do what you want for your family
Allyson Almeda·
Well it's really all going to depend on how this pregnancy goes. If all goes well with this pregnancy and you have a normal vaginal delivery then you should be fine to conceive again that soon if you really wanted to. Taking on 2 kids that young is hard enough, I myself struggle daily with my boys but that's me. But, if something comes up and you end up having to have a csection for whatever reason, it's not recommended to conceive again that soon and your supposed to wait 12-18 months to be on the safe side and give your body the appropriate amount of time to really heal since your uterus after a csection can take a whole year to be back to normal and healed enough to carry again. Getting pregnant too soon after could cause uterine rupture.
Makenna··
Мама сына (1 год)
Yes i know! I’m hoping i have a healthy pregnancy and delivery! Thank you!!
Thekingsdaughter·
Girl if you want to big family have as many as you want. We have sex and I’ve had them as close as 18 months apart and I’ve had them as far apart as five years. You do what feels right to you
🌹🌹MOMMY DUTIES 💜💜🌹🌹·
Well my kids are close in age and no you won’t be wrong