So my ex has reduced his contact with the kids once again, ive taken that and just agreed, as much…
So my ex has reduced his contact with the kids once again, ive taken that and just agreed, as much as it breaks my heart because all I've had today is dad dad dad see dad... and I'm the one who had to tell Noah he can't this weekend and I'm now the bad one and he's lashing out at me.
How am I meant to deal with that? Noah maybe only 2 but he knows that he was meant to be seeing his dad today and he can't 😞
Hurts that he's not even asked how both of them are for a week but him and his new gf are able to try threaten me with courts (for the same contact we agreed there just doing it to piss me off). Such a hard situation I didn't think I'd be in.
Gemma 🖤·
I’m not in the same position but I kind of get where you’re coming from, because my other half works away from home and Jaxon lashes out at me sometimes if daddy’s not here or he’s not able to FaceTime because he’s busy at work. It’s hard, but you’ve just got to remind yourself, YOU are there.
It might not be the same for him as having both parents, but you aren’t to blame.. and as he grows up he will know which parent was there for him and which one wasn’t. X
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I hope he knows when he's older, it's so hard right now just looking at his face and I just can't help feel bad. But I know I'm doing the best I can for them both xx
Kate Bodell·
I know exactly what you mean. Ellis used to lash out at me around the same age when his dad would let him down. It’s not fair, they need routine and regular contact and when they aren’t getting it you feel like the bad person. Ellis is 7 now and as sad as it is to say, he’s so used to his dad letting him down it doesn’t bother him anymore.
Let them go ahead with court, you won’t have to pay for it. He will end up most likely with every second weekend and then it’s actually up to him to follow through with what the court order says.
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Oh no that's heartbreaking to hear, kids shouldn't have to just accept it like it's normal it's sad. That's what he's got now because he decided his other contact arrangement was to much 🙄 I've told him it will be the same in court but they won't listen. Just bmhurts me to see Noah so sad when I say he can't see him because he's "working" x
Kate Bodell··
we’ve had all sorts of excuses over the years. The worst one was he told me he was sick in hospital, turned out he was on holiday. It just amazes me how someone doesn’t want to spend time with there kids. My heart aches if they are away from me for too long.
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
oh Jesus like how can they even lie just to not see there kids. His was he had a headache... was like take some paracetamol jeez. I'm the same I turn into an emotional mess after 2 days😂