In the first obgyn visit(pregnant) aren’t you supposed to be physically checked, including your…

In the first obgyn visit(pregnant) aren’t you supposed to be physically checked, including your boobs and a papsmear? Also don’t they collect an urine sample to check on your protein and other things? That’s what they did to me in other clinic with my first.

In this new place they barely did a transv ultrasound (badly done), she didn’t even bothered to zoom it and look for the heart movement, she just stated there was no heartbeat. (2 weeks before I had an ultrasound like that one, well done at ER and they saw the hear motion). They drowned blood and let me out. I feel every experience I have had with doctors is been bad, sad, they have affected me emotionally, I feel every doctor is the same. Insensitive, jumping to conclusions before even knowing what’s going on, no one listens to what you have to say, and if they do, it’s never considered important. Like, you’re not supposed to even complain that the transv ultrasound is hurting because they automatically tell you that if you can handle a penis that shouldn’t be a big deal. Like wtf. I though this time around it was going to be a different experience but I don’t seem to have good luck.