I am going to rant for a little bit because I am tired of all the bs that goes on.
So we found out I was pregnant late February and my dad disagreed with it then all of a sudden she is so excited about having his first grandchild. When we found out on Saturday we are having a boy he was completely bummed out. Now he has contacted my husband as far as a baby shower that I did not want to have in the first place my dad told my husband that is because we couldn't afford it. Now all of a sudden my dad wants to do the baby shower has been begging me to do the baby shower and I told him he can do it as long as he apologizes to my husband and he has yet to apologize even though I keep asking him have you done it yet? have you thought about what I've said? what are you going to do? And everytime opportunity he changes the subject or he completely stopped talking to me, he has stress me out so much over the past years he's not about to stress me out this year so I am ready to cut him off but I'm trying to give him a chance but I'm so sick and tired of all the BS I get from him and his side of the family.
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Im sorry you and your husband are going through this honestly if u need to distance yourself do so. Ive cut out all my family only few ppl i talk too for same reason dont need bad vibes or fake ppl.
Girl at some point enough is enough thanks for that i needed to hear that i wasnt wrong for feeling that way
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What a roller coaster of emotions he's putting you through! Based on his weird reactions and flip flopping i wouldn't trust him to throw a shower. He can attend. He can help if he wants to. He can be involved in other ways. But for someone who initially disapproved of my pregnancy, that's not the place for that person IMO.
Sounds like he has a lot of trust to earn before just assuming he is going to try to be the world's best grandpa.