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Shawna Santistevan
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Anyone let their 3.5+ year olds play outside by themselves? Meaning you aren’t outside but you can clearly see them and…

Anyone let their 3.5+ year olds play outside by themselves? Meaning you aren’t outside but you can clearly see them and hear them?

No judgement for anyone that answers. I want to know if I’m being overprotective or not.

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thood

❤️Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)

Absolutely not this is a sick fucking world we live in. My daughter does not go outside period without her father or myself.

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

I agree. There’s tons of sickos in this world.

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scream.queen

scream.queenМама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет)

Yes only because we live in the middle of no where shared on 10 acres with my in laws. They know they can only play out back where the trampoline, pool, and swing set is. If they want to ride their dirt bikes or four wheelers an adult has to be present.

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myausome.life

M. P. Мама сына (2 года), беременна (25 нед.)

Nope. But we live right on a busy street and he’s not even slightly trustworthy. There was always an attempted kidnapping on my front lawn 😕

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

That’s scary! 🥺 that’s my worst fear- someone taking her from me

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myausome.life

M. P. Мама сына (2 года), беременна (25 нед.)

@santistevanmommie, I’ve been so careful with him running out alone now cause you never know if he will come back to snatch someone and lord knows my kid would be easy to get 😭😭😭😭 so no I don’t leave him for even a second but if we lived out in the middle of no where with not so many neighbors I’d be more okay with letting him loose as long as I could see him

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queenbee320

QueenBМама двоих (младенец)

I’m out in the boonies and he loves to shriek or yell at our dogs while outside. If I can’t see him I listen for him. If I can’t hear him, my ass is out the door looking for him, baby can cry for 2 minutes

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

Were on the outskirts so I don’t worry as much but still some. It’s a retirement town so most of the residents can’t walk faster than she can lol that helps as well but I always worry that A. Someone will take her B. She’ll walk off.

We don’t have fences up so I think I’m going to wait until we do before I let her out by herself

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

I definitely don’t mind letting the little one cry for a minute to find her. I’d strap her to me if I needed to that isn’t an issue

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momto3boys

Brooke HМама двоих (4 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

We live on a dead end road in the middle of the sticks..my kids can go out back and they know where to go and where not too. My back door is always open. I put a baby gate up on my porch and my 4 yr old can play there with the door open. That way he can't get off.

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scream.queen

scream.queenМама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет)

Yes only because we live in the middle of no where shared on 10 acres with my in laws. They know they can only play out back where the trampoline, pool, and swing set is. If they want to ride their dirt bikes or four wheelers an adult has to be present.

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amomofmonsters

AngelicaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

At my mother in laws yes cause she got a fenced backyard and someone always out there even when im not

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

It’s pretty much the same with us. At my grandmas house she can play outside without me because her pa is always outside and if not pa my grandma

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amomofmonsters

AngelicaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@santistevanmommie, yeah i hope to get a house with a fenced backyard for the same reason i want to be able send them out when im cooking lol or get 5mins to myself

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

@angelprince96, lol yes I’m ready for our yard to be fenced in at least in the back.

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thood

❤️Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)

Absolutely not this is a sick fucking world we live in. My daughter does not go outside period without her father or myself.

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

I agree. There’s tons of sickos in this world.

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

I don’t even trust my almost 8 year old to play anywhere alone.

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

I’m just glad to know I’m not overprotective of her. We don’t live in the city, in fact it’s a retirement town, but I’m so scared someone will snatch her

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

I have one playground I’ll take them to where I’ll actually SIT DOWN and “relax” at because it’s fully fenced in and I know my kids can’t run off but I’ve always been a helicopter mom. I’m always watching them because you never know what could happen.

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

@kimberly_the-preemie-mom, I am the same way!! There’s a tiny park up the road from us. No one ever goes there so I can actually sit on the bench and feel relatively okay. But if she starts going more than 5ft from me I walk behind her

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raisinglittlegamers

UhhhhМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

In the fenced in back yard, yes.

In my front yard with no Fence, then no.

I also have a dog and he'll bark at anyone/anything whose even close to our fence 😂

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

Our pit is like that. He will follow her everywhere but I’m scared to let her go play outside by herself. We live in a hella small retirement town but I just can’t not think the worst

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santistevanmommie

Shawna SantistevanМама двоих (младенец)

@nerdymommyplus2, I also thought about giving caleigha a stopping point and allowing her outside.

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raisinglittlegamers

UhhhhМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

@santistevanmommie

My dog is the most attached to me. He won't leave my side when I go outside. 🤷

It's terrible here. I see kids younger than my oldest running around the neighborhood unsupervised all the dang time.

Like I understand if in a fenced in yard but just roaming around the neighborhood with no adult in site.....

Nope nope nope

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