Am I wrong for being upset that my fiancé watches porn?!
Am I wrong for being upset that my fiancé watches porn?!
Am I wrong for being upset that my fiancé watches porn?!
if he is sneaking off to watch in his lunch break I would say that he is having issues with it... maybe he can't get off without it... it is addictive after all. I would suggest counselling since you also expressed you have been having problems. Sorry you are going through this. I would feel the same way.... I don't mind if my husband watches porn, but secretly watching it or lying about it would be a no deal for me.
Did you have a discussion about it prior to entering a serious relationship? And did he agree not to watch it.
Lol i tell my bf if i catch him watching porn that he better be learning something 😅🤷🏻♀️
You’re never wrong with your feeling. Everyone had their own opinion on porn. I personally watch it And don’t care if my husband does. It doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to you.
@tattoomamaxo, yes it’s affecting our sex life and I’ve told him several times and he still does it.
@tattoomamaxo, yup it is what it is I guess...something I have to be okay with even if I’m upset or feeling insecure about it.
that seems like alot.. Like guys watch porn but not that much??? I know I asked my SO why he watched porn even though we have sex and he told me it's cause he doesn't think I'd try some of the kinky stuff they do . I'd ask him to be honest and ask him why he has to watch that much. Who knows maybe he's found a thing or two you guys can try together lol excite your sex life a little idk but your feelings are very valid and you are allowed to be upset.
honestly I wouldn’t care if he would meet my needs if you know what I mean but he hasn’t in a while because we have been having problems
Nope, I mean I'm fine with it, but we watch it together and been together 12 years, anyways, that's besides the point. I'm commenting to tell you to not question your feelings! That is how you feel and that is that! Talk with him and he should respect your wishes.
I'd be upset honestly. porn opens up doors to demonic entities & I definitely wouldn't want that in my house!! I've heard many testimonies of people being delivered from porn, it's addicting but deliverance is possible! pray in Jesus name, over your home & fiance. demons will flee in the name of JESUS♡
You feel how you feel. Some women don’t like it and others don’t care. Personally I don’t care. I tell him straight out to go watch porn when I’m not in the mood 😂
I personally don’t have a problem w porn if I’m in a relationship unless it was affecting our sex life🤷🏻♀️ but if you’ve made it clear you don’t like him watching it and he continue to do so that’s disrespectful 👌🏻
No you not wrong . You have to do what you feel is best for your relationship as 2 relationships aren’t alike . What you may not like , it may work for the next couple .
If you don’t like porn , express that to your partner ....
I feel like all men watch porn some just might not admit it lol. I never caught my husband watching it but the lid has been off of the lotion a couple of times lol
Heather·
I'd be upset honestly. porn opens up doors to demonic entities & I definitely wouldn't want that in my house!! I've heard many testimonies of people being delivered from porn, it's addicting but deliverance is possible! pray in Jesus name, over your home & fiance. demons will flee in the name of JESUS♡
Heather··
@lakota-winyan ok, I was just curious ur view on them.
Heather··
@bearsbeetsbattlestargalactica I realize that
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@lifewithlynnieandwill88, you can be spiritual without being religious.
dawn··
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, I practice the native tradition. We are spiritual people. I don’t feel anyway about demons. I don’t believe that demons can take someone over. I believe there is just evil people out there.
Heather··
be more specific on your take of being spiritual. demons are spirits, so I'm just wondering how u feel about demons.
dawn··
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, I’m not religious.
Heather··
look at the website. there's 2 different ways to be spiritual. Godly or Ungodly. no in between. can't be lukewarm..
biblically, it's lust of the eyes (flesh).
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.
1 John 2:15-17 KJV
dawn··
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, idk I’m a spiritual person and I watch porn.
Heather··
@wolfemama18 https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/porn-and-the-demonic-realm.249315/
if you're spiritual, you will see how evil the porn industry is. watching the evil opens the doors in your home. this website explains really well. I hope you read it & see for yourself♡
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@lifewithlynnieandwill88 I'm just curious, how does porn open doors to demonic entities?
Fuckyourself·
I personally don’t have a problem w porn if I’m in a relationship unless it was affecting our sex life🤷🏻♀️ but if you’ve made it clear you don’t like him watching it and he continue to do so that’s disrespectful 👌🏻