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Genevieve
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Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

I hate bedtime. It’s just impossible. We used to put him in his cot and walk away. What happened. Now I’ve to sit in his…

I hate bedtime. It’s just impossible. We used to put him in his cot and walk away. What happened. Now I’ve to sit in his room 2 hours waiting for him to fall asleep. I can’t do it. Help!!

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michellelouise862

michelleМама четверых детей

Yeah I give mine either a hot chocolate or a Horlicks before bed , an it always seems to get them in a dozy mood so I take them to bed but a cartoon on for them in there room an there always gone in about 30 mins, xx

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Might have to give that a go @michellelouise862, he would love that. Might try the slightly later bedtime too. Thanks

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michellelouise862

michelleМама четверых детей

Aww bless him, hopefully it will start getting better for you soon duck, maybe try a Horlicks or a hot chocolate in a bottle before bed I find that helps mine sleep better as well xx

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michellelouise862

michelleМама четверых детей

Aww I know the feeling all to well Hun, did he sleep any better for you last night ? Xx

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

He slept through till 5:30. And is now napping.

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michellelouise862

michelleМама четверых детей

I've had many nights where I've been that exhausted trying to get them to sleep that I'd sit an cry , I also used to let mine fall asleep downstairs watching a cartoon an then carry them up to bed an they'd sleep all through, I find what ever is easiest do it, I've got 4 an 30 weeks pregnant with my 5th so I know all to well about it, x

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

There’s been plenty of tears here. When he wakes in the night and I end up spending over an hour in his room it pushes me over the edge.

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Thanks @michellelouise862, I hope so. It started he was about 18months.

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michellelouise862

michelleМама четверых детей

I can remember this stage it was so hard and tiring, it will get better , just bare with it , I think it's just phases they go through x

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abbiiqx

AbbiМама двоих (младенец)

I slowly moved out the room with my lo, then id sit outside his door then I managed to go sit in my room, I could still see him down the hall if he got up. And now I can go down stairs! Takes a little while but I found this way he didn't become so distressed as we did the cio and he would make himself sick and stop breathing 🤦‍♀️

Think there is a thing you can search think it's called the disappearing chair which slowly moves you out the room xx

Nothing against cio as I used it when he was younger and it work then x

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

This is what we’re trying. He does the sick and not breathing thing. I can make it out of his room now but if I go further than the top of the stairs (just outside his bedroom door) he’s up. Thankfully he’s off now. Only taken just over an hour tonight. Will it just take less and less? My eldest has always been a great sleeper

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abbiiqx

AbbiМама двоих (младенец)

@gen87 That's exactly how Noah was lol but yeah each night just got easier and less time spent. I found as well if he didn't nap during the day he would go straight of and if he did I put him to bed slightly later so he was just that more tired so I wasn't spending all night out there. I had to get him out of it before violet came as it just wouldn't work so thankfully this method worked 😊 fingers crossed he settles into it quite quickly x

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@abbiiqx, thank you

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gen87

Genevieve Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Yeah I’m thinking we’re gonna have to give it a serious go. He gets so worked up sometimes he then can’t calm down.

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ginah

GinaМама дочки (2 года), беременна (16 нед.)

We had to do the cry it out method. Not very nice but works! Xx

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