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PLEASE READ !!! I need some advice.

Soo I had my daughter Oct 26,2018. She is now 6 months. From the moment that I gave birth I have been on the Mini Pill. Never missed one, never took one late. In always on point with my Bc. Soo a few days ago, i felt "funny". I was having cramps & was just feeling weird. Soo i took a pregnancy test just in case & it came out positive. Now im stuck on stupid. My son is 4 & My daughter is only 6 months. I had a csection & I just dont know what to think or do or even say.
02.05.2019
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kimberly_preemie-mom
kimberly_preemie-mom
I’ll get so much hate on this and I don’t care. You did everything right and still got pregnant.. this is one of those situations where if you’re not ready physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially you should be able to consider all your options. I was still numb and kind of sore 6 months after my c section so I can’t imagine going through a pregnancy again while still healing. You have to make sure your body is going to be able to handle another pregnancy so soon. Your OB should be able to tell you the risks about another baby so soon and you can make your decision from there. Me personally though? If I did everything to prevent a pregnancy, and I knew my body wasn’t ready, I wouldn’t force my body to go through with another pregnancy.
I hope you’re able to talk to your OB soon and figure out what is best for you. Good luck mama!
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coffeebean
coffeebean
I was just in your shoes except I wasn’t on birth control so I wasn’t too shocked but still a little shocked. It would have been my FOURTH baby & mine was still only 6 months at the time. I was freaking tf out & so was my husband. But we were gonna figure it out & make it work regardless. Unfortunately I ended up miscarrying😢 which made me feel like being scared & ungrateful caused it to happen. But you’ll be just fine girl. There’s a million negatives I’m sure you can think of. But there are also a lot of positives to it. One, your babies will be the best of friends because they’re gonna grow up together & be so close in age. Two, your 6mo old will be roughly 15 months when you give birth which means it won’t be the same as having a 6mo old & a new baby. Three, more adorable squishy babies to love on💕 . Gave you three right there☺️❤️

You’re gonna be okay. I know it’s super scary but everything happens for a reason so maybe there’s a bigger picture here you just haven’t seen yet. For all we know, this could be the future brain surgeon who without them someone wouldn’t have survived their surgery.

Always here if you need someone to talk to though💕
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therealbrie
therealbrie
I had a a little argument with my grandmother because I told her about the situation & she said I should get an abortion because I still have a little baby & Thats too soon & i only have a one bedroom & im still in school & all this crap soo I just literally left her house & havent spoken to her or anyone.
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thebthatdontcare
thebthatdontcare
Just ignore her!! You know what’s best for you and your family, but us women can do the impossible.
You can be a mom and a wife and do school. If that’s what you wanna do!!
And honestly we have 4 boys in a two bedroom right now we just got a hideaway bed couch and we sleep out in the living room on it it works for us for now do what you gotta do!!
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thebthatdontcare
thebthatdontcare
Your bc failed sorry 😐
But congratulations on your new babe!! You will do great, take it one day at a time, women do it all them time hopefully you have a good support system ❤️
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