Deidra Escobar
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Deidra Escobar ·Мама троих детей

So I officially started work yesterday after over two years of being a stay at home mom and ugh was it horrible. Due to me still breastfeeding I had leaky situation at work and it was so embarrassing. All I can think about was coming home to nurse my son and be a mommy to my girls. Now I woke up to aching pains in my body just such a reck right now. Having second thoughts about returning to being a working mom 😔💔 idk if I can do it 😭

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deedeeesco
Deidra Escobar ·Мама троих детей

@roses702, @massgirl, @astridoll, We need it to get back on our own feet we are sharing a place with my mil and sil and it’s been really hard lately for us and to add @astridoll, my husband works but sometimes we had setbacks and with me helping out we can get back on track again I understand what u mean I feel the same exact way too we don’t do nothing have no extras but it’s worth it good thing is he works his days and when he comes home I work so no one needs to babysit or anything and with my job I can stay in contact all night and Skype plus my job is down the street if there any issues he can stop by with him and hang for a bit

I work at a laundromat and my boss is really nice and understanding with me

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astridoll
💞Astrid💞·Мама сына (2 года)

Great mama, it is worth it to get on your own. I know it’s nothing easy to live with someone else. You got this 💪🏼

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roses702
Rose ·Мама четверых детей

That's great, hopefully you adjust quickly & that's great your job is down the block

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astridoll
💞Astrid💞·Мама сына (2 года)

My husband works and pays for everything while I take care of the house, our boy and cook. We don’t have free money to spend, we live tight. But there is no better reword than being able to take care of Shemaiah, my big boy has never been to a day care to get sick, or mistreated by teachers or nannies in my absence, because mommy has been there. I can’t buy new shoes and purses or go on vacation every 6 months, but I can be there for every “first” of him. Sorry I just got sentimental I’m preggo.

If my husband couldn’t pay for everything and needed help of course I would have to work and Shemaiah wouldn’t be so lucky to have mommy all day. But that would be because I have no other option.

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roses702
Rose ·Мама четверых детей

Oh no hope today is better

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massgirl
Mandy·Мама дочки (4 года)

If you don't need to do it to financially support your family then go home. Your baby boy is still young .

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roses702
Rose ·Мама четверых детей

I agree

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astridoll
💞Astrid💞·Мама сына (2 года)

@roses702, agree

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