Good mourning everyone...
Ok so would you still marry your man if he ask for a dna test?
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Well I wasted 1,000 on mine to prove what i already knew. He knew she was his too. Mine was 1,000 because I did a prenatal dna test while I was pregnant because I didn’t want him denying her my whole pregnancy and that be his excuse for not buying Anything. He still didn’t buy anything and he’s not around period. So I still wasted all that money. Hopefully me spending that much will make you feel better about spending 100$
@mommyof1beauty well it do...but I would've spent 1000... Because he brung that up in every fight,
@johnsonarriel25, definitely feel you! Someone Questioning your child is serious business so getting it resolved is by any means necessary. I wish the money could’ve went to my daughter, but I ultimately don’t regret my decision!
In the beginning my husband would joke about wanting one and finally I got fed up and said “go ahead and get the tests done, but know that’s coming out of your pockets and you’ll be paying for their child support for a long time”😂
My daughters father asked for one and I gave him one but broke up with him as well. I could see if maybe something happened, or if you cheated before, or one of the other kids had a crazy dna mishap or something but if none of that happened then I don’t agree with that. That’s hurtful and disrespectful. Now my daughters father isn’t in her life, he wanted a way out and denying her was his. When he got the results back he just simply decided not to be around. Have you asked him his reasoning for wanting one???
He says because around the time of conception we were arguing heavy and he has always thought my son looks like my 1st childs dad...
@johnsonarriel25, I still think that’s absurd. He should trust you. And that’s horrible for him to say about his own son. I would definitely get the test done, but it’s your decision ultimately if you marry him or not. However you feel then you are justified in that. If you want to leave and think it’s unforgivable then do so, if you feel that you can put it behind you and it won’t cause a rift then continue planning your wedding but stand your ground on letting him know that trust has to be there for Marriage. Just Follow your heart.
Depends- does he have reasonable doubt the child could be not his?
No...i backslid with my ex once.3months into the relationship.
@johnsonarriel25, for me that’s a good reason. I don’t know your story and what happened but if this was my situation, I believe in the “once a cheater always a cheater”. If I was in his situation- I would ask for proof too.
No. If he doesn’t trust you so much that he’s asking that then getting married won’t change that, his distrust will just move to something else.
Because wen we first got together 5yrs ago i slept with my first childs father. Also my family is very....hell slutty for lack of better words.
@johnsonarriel25, Well then honestly you can't blame him for having trust issues..
I wouldn’t. If he has to ask for a dna test there isn’t trust between y’all and a marriage/relationship with no trust probably won’t work out..
Yea....i believe that too...we both know he has no trust. He say the test will clear that up
@johnsonarriel25, no it won’t, he will just find something else to question you about.
Well i already ordered it and i feel like i just wasted 100 bucks😑 but ill do whatever to prove im right...