Having a disagreement with hubs lol I think he should be the one to get fixed not I😂
My husband is getting it done because he doesn’t want to deal with my hormonal ass on birth control lmao me and birth control don’t mix. So after our third or fourth he will get ✂️✂️
Yeah I'm not getting on Birth control for the same issues don't want to be hormonal nor gain weight from it, had the IUD before been there done that 😂
My husband had it done and it wasn’t even that bad. Yes he had some pain and discomfort afterwards, but after seeing what I went thru with two births (c-sections) he was more than willing to take one for the team and get it done. Really it’s the least they can do since we have to deal with pregnancy and birth.
I agree he needs to suck it up for the team 😂
My husband and I have the same debate already. I agreed to get my nexplanon placed one last time after our baby is born. After the three years I'll have it out and we'll either have one more or he's getting fixed. He thinks he's not having it done. HA. That's a joke pal.
I'ma have to trick him like we're just going to get breakfast ,pull up to the office😂🤣
@dscroggins08 Just leave him there and change the locks. 😂👏🏻Don't come home till you're fixed!
This is mine and my husband's disagreement ALL the time. 🙄 he swears when he's on vacation sometime he will.
@dscroggins08, Ugh, I've heard the exact same thing from him! His cousin had it done and said he couldn't walk straight for a week. Meanwhile my husband is a coal miner, a guy that works with him had it done and went to work the SAME day. My uncle even told him it wasn't bad!
@squishymommy1, 5 appointments?! I don't get what the big deal is with guys and getting snipped. 🤷♀️
I didn’t even have to convince my husband. He practically ran to the doctors office 😂 apparently 5 kids was his limit 🤷🏼♀️
He needs to run his butt to the doctors office ,he said three is his limit 😂
It’s outpatient for men. It’s major surgery for women.
@squishymommy1 He wants us to both get fixed 😑
@dscroggins08, tell him to suck it up butter cup. And that he goes first. And then just don’t 😆
@squishymommy1 lol that's what he's trying to pull on me "you first "😂😂😂

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
It’s a personal decision for each of you to make on your own. What if something happens to your spouse and your kids, would YOU want more or no?