Yesterday was going so good until my ex decided to push me 1 last time 😡 not only does he have zero…
Yesterday was going so good until my ex decided to push me 1 last time 😡 not only does he have zero respect for me and the fact I just gave birth to his daughter he also thinks he can just lie to me and think it's perfectly normal.
So I assumed he had taken Noah to his new gfs house, which I was fine with through gritted teeth but yano I'm dealing with it and I gave him this chance so we could finally start being civil but nope what does he go and do, lie to me to where this new gf lives because apprently I don't need to no... I'm sorry don't need to know where you've taken my child? Now I didn't need to know the house number or street but the town yes! What happens if there was an emergancy or if something happened on the news and they was involved and I would never of known because he's not meant to be there(unlikely I know but I'm a mum I think the worst 😂) the difference was he told me he was 15 mins by train when in fact it's an hour and a half away by train that's a huge difference!
Not only that he goes and sends me pictures and the first one is with her cuddling up to Noah which I found highly inappropriate and literally just made me cry because he knew all I'd done is cry all weekend to have Noah back.
He's really trying to mess with me and he's using my babies to do it, and now he's threatening to come take violet because he pays for her so he can take her when ever he likes... this will never happen because he'll never step foot in my house again but to think he thinks he can do it is worrying me what his intentions are.
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That’s not fair I don’t know how you can stay so calm id of kicked off x
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I went mental via text 😂
Kelsey·
Мама сына-младенца
I think you should know the bloody street. Hes your child you have a right to know where hes at. Also you dont have to have anyone around you child that you dont want around so dont feel pressured into it if you arent ready. I would try looking into speaking to someone who knows a bit more about the rules of this sort of thing because I'm pretty sure some of what hes doing isnt ok.
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Apparently by law he doesn't have to tell me but i thought out of respect he would tell me and not find the need to lie. X
Kerry.·
I agree with @kelseysym You should know the exact address. My oh ex has our exact address and so she should if her kids are here.. You've just given birth and it seems he's happy to give you trouble constantly. You really don't need it x
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah that's it, I didn't want the address as I couldn't get there as it's to far but I just wanted him to be normal and just tell me because he would want to know if he was me. It's just the new woman 🙄 xx
Kate Bodell·
My ex is exactly the same. Wouldn’t tell me his new address. I had to get it off his dad. He never tells me where he is when he has him. Last week he was in Skegness with his grandma and i had no idea. I only find out when Ellis comes home where he’s been. If I try ask I get arsey texts saying he can take him where he wants as he’s his son which is fair but I should still know where he is! He came back after meeting his new woman saying “daddy got me a new mummy” which broke me to pieces.
I give up arguing with him. He such an egotistical cunt.
In terms for violet, she’s still too little to be away from you. He can’t just take her because he pays. That’s not how it works so he can get that idea right out of his head.
I would advise you to look into getting a court order so it’s set out on paper the time he spends with the kids. The majority of court orders are every second weekend which work well. Lots of us here have gone through the process (me included) so will be happy to help and advise. Keep your chin up. Some men are just dicks 🤷🏼♀️
Abbi··
Мама двоих (младенец)
They seem to be like the same man 😂 that was his exact answer back. Think it would be a tad easier if Noah could tell me what he had done and where he was but he can't. As for the new woman well she can try play mummy but sure as hell she isn't 😂.
Yeah he's pushing it with violet he just want to show her off with his new woman play pretend because she new, shame he hasn't bothered to actually come see her on his own but he's a dick and missing out.
Thank you! I am thinking of going down this route because he's just not taking me seriously and if it's ordered by the courts he can't say it's my fault or I'm in the wrong. Xx
Gemma 🖤·
I’m so sorry ugh 😢 You don’t need this being a week PP, I really feel for you. If you need to talk 👋🏼 xx