My husband told me if anything ever happens to him he doesn’t want to be hooked on machines he just wants me to let him go. And I told him I will never let him go I will never pull the plug.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a fit and got upset and he didn't go, should I have let him?
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
EDIT : this post is very long. I need to rant really quick and I am expecting honest answers from some mamas on here! Tell me if I’m wrong. Couple months ago my boyfriend got into an accident and went through a coma, was in a rehab center and for weeks. I was only with him for the first 3 days of him being in the hospital cause him mom kicked me out and didn’t let me see him for months. When he woke up from his coma she lied to me told me that he didn’t remember me or his daughter! When she found out I was pregnant by him she tried to make everyone plus him believe that I cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else but even though she said that he still didn’t believe her which made me really happy! I wrote to her every single day since she kicked me out the hospital and she gave me nothing but hell and lies and even said she didn’t want to know about her own granddaughter. This story is extremely long so to not bore you guys out let me get to the point, he told me I could go to his house for Father’s Day and bring our babygirl and he wants to feel baby in the belly move BUT I was never allowed in his house cause of his mother and father. am I wrong for not wanting to step a foot in a house full of people who enjoyed to make my life miserable for months or better yet told me that she wants nothing to do with my daughter, and Is trying to convince him that baby on the way isn’t his?? I told him we can meet up with us aid (he needs a aid due to complications from his accident) and go out for dinner but he doesn’t want that. He already has a 5 year old daughter that his family adores ( but they can’t stand my daughter ) he wants them both together but I told him I don’t feel comfortable being in a house full of people who literally prayed for him to not remember me or his daughter! No one has apologized or tried to make things better just worse. I tried to make arrangements for us but he thinks I just don’t want his family around my daughter and he’s damn right! Those people will never get to be around my daughter ever again after all this stress they’ve caused!! Someone people tell me I’m not over exaggerating 😥
Shay·
It's hard decision but it's always best to respect their wishes.
Steph·
I totally get that but if it’s his wishes, you need to respect them. My husband has it in his will that he does not want to live hooked up to a machine to live.
Cailyn Mitchell·
My husband and I have had the same discussion. I understand that if he has no quality of life that he doesn’t want to prolong the inevitable. I pray I never have to make that decision
squishymommy1·
That’s not ok 😬
Deleted·
Why wouldn’t you want to respect your husband’s wishes?
Jasmine Echiveste·
@squishymommy1, @theycallmemommy, @mychemicalshaymance, @parkers_mommy, @flamingomom, I completely understand I wouldn’t have any other choice but to respect his wishes. It’s a hard topic to discuss. He’s my first love my first everything it would be hard. I’ve had dreams of him dying and I wake up crying. But I would respect him on what he wants. Just like he would with my wishes
Jelly·
If he has a DNR I don’t think you have a choice.. (this is based of watching too much greys anatomy so I’m
Not sure on the accuracy)
Jasmine Echiveste··
This is how the conversation came up. We started watching it from the beginning and we just saw the episode with Derek and he just told me. He said said he would sign a DNR so I wouldn’t have to make any decisions and just worry about our kids.
D R E A·
I'm in nursing school and I think when y'all had the talk he's trying to lay it straight but like above if a dnr is signed married or not you can't change what he signed before him passing
Jasmine Echiveste··
I know. He’s said he would sign it and he wants me to let him go bc he doesn’t want me or our kids to see him like that. I would respect him. I just hope that day never comes 💔
Teresa Perez·
Мама двоих (младенец)
We’ve semi had this discussion and I agree with your husband. I don’t want to be kept alive by machines and tubes. I completely understand that would be crazy hard for them to deal with but we decided on 30 days of life support. After 30 days of no brain waves or signs of life I’d like to be let go and I’d respect anything my husband wanted for his life as much as it would suck for me and the kids.
Jasmine Echiveste·
It’ll be too hard on me and the kids that is why he made that decision. I would respect him and his wishes. But it’ll be too hard for me.
Jasmine Echiveste·
@teresanatalia,