My husband told me if anything ever happens to him he doesn’t want to be hooked on machines he just…
My husband told me if anything ever happens to him he doesn’t want to be hooked on machines he just wants me to let him go. And I told him I will never let him go I will never pull the plug.
Shay·
It's hard decision but it's always best to respect their wishes.
Steph·
I totally get that but if it’s his wishes, you need to respect them. My husband has it in his will that he does not want to live hooked up to a machine to live.
Cailyn Mitchell·
My husband and I have had the same discussion. I understand that if he has no quality of life that he doesn’t want to prolong the inevitable. I pray I never have to make that decision
squishymommy1·
That’s not ok 😬
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Why wouldn’t you want to respect your husband’s wishes?
Jasmine Echiveste·
@squishymommy1, @theycallmemommy, @mychemicalshaymance, @parkers_mommy, @flamingomom, I completely understand I wouldn’t have any other choice but to respect his wishes. It’s a hard topic to discuss. He’s my first love my first everything it would be hard. I’ve had dreams of him dying and I wake up crying. But I would respect him on what he wants. Just like he would with my wishes
Jelly·
If he has a DNR I don’t think you have a choice.. (this is based of watching too much greys anatomy so I’m
Not sure on the accuracy)
Jasmine Echiveste··
This is how the conversation came up. We started watching it from the beginning and we just saw the episode with Derek and he just told me. He said said he would sign a DNR so I wouldn’t have to make any decisions and just worry about our kids.
D R E A·
I'm in nursing school and I think when y'all had the talk he's trying to lay it straight but like above if a dnr is signed married or not you can't change what he signed before him passing
Jasmine Echiveste··
I know. He’s said he would sign it and he wants me to let him go bc he doesn’t want me or our kids to see him like that. I would respect him. I just hope that day never comes 💔
Teresa Perez·
Мама двоих (младенец)
We’ve semi had this discussion and I agree with your husband. I don’t want to be kept alive by machines and tubes. I completely understand that would be crazy hard for them to deal with but we decided on 30 days of life support. After 30 days of no brain waves or signs of life I’d like to be let go and I’d respect anything my husband wanted for his life as much as it would suck for me and the kids.
Jasmine Echiveste·
It’ll be too hard on me and the kids that is why he made that decision. I would respect him and his wishes. But it’ll be too hard for me.
Jasmine Echiveste·
@teresanatalia,