I hate pumping too! I went back to work when my son was 4 months, he’s 12 months now and I’m still pumping. It’s hard and I wish I didn’t have to do it, but I try to remind myself that it’s temporary and I’m lucky that I have a good milk supply. Try to push thru if you can, but if not then feel good about the time that you put in.
I loathe pumping but I'm set on continuing to nurse and work so...
Don't feel guilty. Pumping sucks.
You’re not being selfish at all! It’s extremely hard. I only got to breastfeed for 2 weeks and it was HARD. My son would get frustrated and he wouldn’t latch then he’d start screaming cause he was hungry so then he had an even harder time latching cause he was stressed and that stressed me out and it made him worse and back and forth...it’s SO hard but you can do it mama.
I feel like this almost daily. Lol I’ve been exclusively pumping for 6 months now.
Not selfish at all. A happy mom is more important.
I have so much respect for moms who pump. It's hard and if you are also doing the primary caregiving duties it's even harder.
Ultimately do what works for you and your baby. Your baby needs a happy/content mom more then any other thing.
Not selfish at all!! I felt like that A LOT of the day and I just wanted to give up! But stuck through it for 13.5 months! You got this momma!
Not selfish at all. Breastfeeding is hard. Pumping is hard. I made it 5 months feeding and pumping before it became to much. I slowly backed off pumping at work and just this last week my supply is down enough that I couldn't feed him at night anymore. I had to pump once on Wednesday and I haven't done anymore. He cut his bottom 2 teeth in the last month and the weekend of Easter he pulled off during a full suck and scrapped his teeth on the bottom of my nipple. Luckily I didn't get cut but ti was enough for me to be done. I am so proud of my accomplishment. I surpassed my goals.
I don’t mind the nursing it’s just the pumping especially at work there are so many days that I want to just skip the pump 😩 but I don’t even have enough milk in the freezer to stop pumping at work.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I only pump to get some relief between feedings, but I can say it is hard work. I feel like I always have my little man or a pump attached to my boobs. You are doing a great job momma.