Found out I’m pregnant again. My boyfriend doesn’t want it due to our financial situation and is saying he’ll leave me if I don’t abort it. If he truly means that I guess I’ll be doing this all on my own. I just gotta stay strong 😢💖
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Either way he’s gonna have to pay child support. Sorry you are going through that
Omg. That is horrible. I'd hold that door open for him.....
That’s a low down shit thing to say to someone you claim to love. He should be ashamed of himself.. I understand his concerns with why he might think abortion is better but leave you if you don’t? That’s childish & pathetic. Not to mention does he not realize that doesn’t let him off the hook of financially supporting that baby? Either way he’s gonna have another kid whether he leaves you or not so that’s low. I’m sorry babe.
Yeah I know. I was so hurt when he said I’d be doing it alone. That’s a side of him I’ve never seen before. He’s always been so loving and supportive and now he’s acting completely different. Its hard hearing him say these things but I know I’ll get through it, thank you!
@hannahballard017, maybe he will come around. Maybe he just is feeling extremely overwhelmed with it so he’s saying crazy things he doesn’t mean trying to convince you. Give him some time & see if he comes around to the idea of it. But I definitely would be careful because if he keeps an attitude like that, he might take it out against the child & have hard feelings towards him/her which you don’t want either.
I’d tell him to kiss my butt. You can do it without him, he’s clearly not the right guy for you and your children.
If he didn’t want another one he should have used protection. Your baby is only 3 months old. You’re so fertile right now.
He dont sound like a standup man u can find better momma you gotta do what you feel is right! Im sorry ur dealing with this but congratulations
Stay strong mama. You got this. My.bf said the same thing to me. And he we are almost 36 weeks and he's sleeping in bed. Its been rough but give him some time to process. I know it sounds so stupid and its the last thing you want to do because of hormones and being extra emotional right now. But trust me. A couple weeks of space and my guy came around. Hoping the same for you!