So I know I vented in here before about my daughters father (the baby I’m about to have) other kids mother (whew!) and how she barely let’s him see the kids and how she told him that she doesn’t want her kids around me or our new baby (their sibling)...but would i be doing too much if I messaged her and asked if she would consider allowing her kids to meet their new sister when I’m in the hospital?! She’s been letting him see the kids lately. And it’s been heavy on my mind. It’s so important to me that they meet and bond with their sister. Help me out ladies. What would you do or say? How would you handle it. Clearly she’s the immature one but is it worth a shot?
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Extend the olive branch, shout out to her be honest tell her how you feel that it’s important and why and see what happens.
Girl I went thru this exact situation (I'm sure she was still in love) everything was fine for a couple of months but every time I turned around she had me and my child's name in her mouth. Even tried to say my husband treated my daughter better which he didn't.. the bond was just different bc we live together. Their son was closer with his mom which he lived with so I'm still not understanding how that came about. Although I don't like his mother I would give anything for my kids to have a relationship with their big brother.
Ask her to lunch and ask in person maybe. It couldn't hurt. Just say you want to let the past be in the past and move on for your kids. They are siblings after all.
She’s made it very clear to him that she wants nothing to do with me. She’s never even met me. She’s just really jealous or MAD that he’s having a baby by another woman. But they haven’t been together for 2 going on 3 years. I’ve seen messages from her like “you’re so stupid for getting her pregnant. How could u? U were supposed to wait for me to get myself together” 🤷🏽♀️
This is a iffy one cause for her to be acting super sour like this and they’re not even together means she still has feelings for
Him so hearing from you or having this big happy family thing is prob the last thing she wants to hear right now 😩