How do I tell when my son goes into deep sleep so I can lay him down without waking him?
My son literally will not sleep without being held. If we put him down he sleeps for maybe 5 minutes before waking up crying 😭 We’ve been trying to swaddle him and still doesn’t help. We even hold him at night which I know isn’t safe but it’s literally the only way we get any sleep at all. But it’s starting to get to hot and he wakes up super sweaty so now I’m at a loss on how to get him to sleep alone
Get a “swaddle up” by born to dream they are life. My son will only sleep being held or in the swaddle up, he’s 2 months and since I started using it at 2 weeks he sleeps at night in his bassinet from 830pm to between 230-5am then feeds and goes right back to sleep. My bestie has a 2 month old as well she wouldn’t sleep unless being held she went and bought a swaddle up 2 weeks ago and now she sleeps in her bassinet.
It’s different then a regular swaddle because it allows them to have their hands by their face so they can soothe themselves but also holds them tight so they don’t startle themselves and feel held.
@mimixtmn, 🤦🏻♀️ I just went and bought a new swaddle today and got the swaddle sack or something like that. It does show a hands up way maybe that’ll work. I’ll try that tonight. Thank you. Does the swaddle up work when baby starts to roll over also or no?
@kasey.m, umm good question I’m not sure lol they do have one called the 50/50 I bought couple weeks ago that is a “transitional” one to get baby out of sleeping with it, so the arms zip off and basically it’s then a sleep sack. I bought it since my son needed a bigger size now figured can use it regularly now and when he’s ready to transition.
Wait about 10 to 15 minutes and then lay him down
I’ve always waited 20 min they lift her hand a little and if it drops without her stirring I know I’m good to go
My son snores lol you can try putting him down slowly and see if he starts walking up.
I was going to say the same thing. I wait for my daughter to start snoring and I know she is in deep sleep
I don’t think anyone knows an answer to that 😂 i wait about 30mins and sometimes it just doesn’t work. My baby girl is almost 3mos
His head will get heavier. It’s how I could tell with my girls
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I wait 10-15 min after my daughter falls asleep