Getting frustrated with a friend. Her husband is incredibly sick and had surgery on wednesday. Shes mad bc theyre trying for a baby and him being sick is causing bills and in her words a major set back. They think he may have celiac disease. I told her try not to press the issue and patience is better after she asked my opinion. The doctor has already told her she cant have a child on her own but shes bound and determined. I recognize and appreciate the effort but i just lightly explained she could go with the adoption route or foster to adopt and she got upset with me saying its not the same. Which i totally get but either way shes blessed with a child. I just wish shed be patient. Shes stressing herself out to the max and the stress is badly affecting her mood and anxiety levels. Idk what to say without sounding like im trying to have a say in what they decide to do but she also asked my honest opinion and i dont sugar coat things.