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I don't think your over reacting at all. I wouldn't even let the owner message her. I know checks come in on Friday I'll be there and if you need to get ahold of my daughter you can message me. And past that I would have her look for another job. He sounds like a creep. if I was your daughter I would be uncomfortable.

I personally would go in there and talk to them or have My Husband go in there and talk to them. That’s not appropriate for a grown man to text a child. You are not overreacting. But like I said I would go in there and handle the situation or have my husband.

Look even if he’s one of those people who calls everyone baby or sweetie once it was brought to the wife’s attention that you guys would rather he not that should of been the end of it. Just because she doesn’t see anything wrong with it other people can be uncomfortable with it. Me personally if I had a lot of under age girls working for me I’d be the line of communication. I would want every parent to feel like there child protected while working for me.

Nope. I would have been up in that store whopping some ass I can’t lie. For one, I WILL NEVER tolerate a grown ass man talking to my child. You’re making a death wish right there. Second, if some grown ass woman thinks she’s gonna scream in MY kids face over her weird ass boyfriend, it will get ugly fast. There’s no limits when it comes to my children & keeping them safe. If they have anyone higher up or corporate I would call about both this issue & the dress situation to make sure they couldn’t do that. & if they do call when it comes in, I don’t think your daughter should be picking it up I think you & your husband should do it so nothing can be said to her anymore that it already has.

The fact that she got defensive leads me to believe that there is more behind her reaction. Personally, I would probably have my daughter start looking for another job. I don’t think it’s inappropriate for your boss to text you to say the paychecks are ready but to call her “baby cakes” is very weird. What if you went in a spoke with her since your daughter is a minor?

Huhhhh.... I guess I would be bothered by it if the guy seemed like a total creeper, but maybe that’s him trying to be nice and figured that was a safer thing to say? Seems like a really weird situation to be in. I agree it’s not good that he was calling your daughter (and the other girls) baby cakes. That is weird. What’s really shitty is now the owner handled the situation. Going off on your daughter was not the right thing to do, AT ALL. I would have her look for a different job if possible. I’m sure she enjoys being there but it’s probably not a good fit for her at her age, and the lady sounds like a little nutty herself. As soon as your daughter’s dress comes in, she should consider looking for a new job.