Why do some men just expect us to do everything in the house and they dont want to lift s finger…
Why do some men just expect us to do everything in the house and they dont want to lift s finger just because they work ..i mean dont get me wrong i work as well and take care of two kids and clean but he expects the house to be spotless all day every day .. & then he keeps telling me how i dont belive him when he says how close he is to leaving me like if he is trying to scare me 🤦♀️ i mean girls corect me if im wrong .. but i wash all the clothe i clean take out the trash and work and take care of the kids a 2 and a 2 month old and with one day that we go out and its dirty the next he is having a break down .... what to do :/ what would you girls do or say ?
Mary blair·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
If I was you I would talk to him face to face
Mandie B·
First he shouldn’t be telling you that , I’d tell my SO if he’s gonna leave, leave 🤷🏽♀️. And if you work too I feel y’all should both do the house work??? Why do you have to work AND clean? And he doesn’t. That makes no sense. When me and my SO were both working he’d clean while I was at work and I’d do the same. Even now I have no job but he will still make dinner, wash dishes, tidy up the living room, and do laundry without me asking. He doesn’t do this all by himself but he at least helps out. Your SO is a grown man and he can help.
dawn·
I’m a SAHM and I do all the cleaning. My husband knows it’s impossible to get the house clean with two kids running around making messes as soon as I clean. He said something one time and I left him with out daughter for the day and he realized how hard it actually is. He never said anything else about a messy house.
Sabi ·
I’d tell him to leave🤷🏼♀️ or I’d find a place behind his back and take the kids and dip. I can’t stand being threaten. You working is a big benefit! I wish we had another car so I could work for when shit goes down.
Angelina C·
Мама сына (1 год)
Fuck all that!!!! I would punch him lol . 😑