Spent easter Sunday with my grandparents who havent had a baby in well over fourty years and i felt like they kept picking at my parenting when i was trying to take care of my lo and on our way out i was having my husband strap our lo into a carseat and my grandma said when she was a mother they didnt have these fancy car seats and all 5 of her kids are still alive and have kids of their own like almost saying "oh she doesnt need that thing." God its irritating when older people say stuff like that ive heard it twice. Yes children need car seats its not safe! Ive even heard people be like oh when it was the 50s and i was on a car trip with family id just feed our little one on my lap. Like ahhhh. O.O How did parents back then think that was safe? Youre in a moving vehicle!