Sometimes I feel like I don’t want to have children and be a mother.

It’s definitely a demanding job but it is one of the most rewarding and unforgettable experiences. You won’t regret it, trust me😊

It's really tough in the beginning trust me, before I got pregnant with my first I never wanted kids. But you grow this bond and love that you never experienced before and it's the most wanting feeling anyone could have or ask for.

It’s normal to be scared. Idk if it’s true for everyone but when the baby comes, things come naturally. It is very tiring. The lack of sleep, especially the first couple months. When I look at my kids though, they make it all worth it. I’ll definitely do it again if I was younger. ♥️💜💙💚

All those doubts will go right out the window when you hold your baby for the first time❤️

It’s extremely difficult I know I’m starting to feel like I never have any me time ever but just know that it’s normal thinking and you will find your groove I promise you

Firstly, love your screen name. ☝️♀️

And yes it is so very difficult. Most people see moms on social media and get the wrong idea. Not everyday will be picture perfect. There are not many women that talk about how hard being a mother truly is because you're just expected to have " natural instinct". But for me I can honestly say that every single part of becoming and being a mom was/is extremely challenging. Kids grow/ change everyday. The effects of pregnancy were very tough on my body and I had my first when I just became 19 parenting on my own until I met my DH ( dear husband) a year later. And he had a child from a previous relationship. I took on the responsibility happily as mother to both of our kiddos. Life is a whirlwind, really. Some days are less chaotic than others but that's about the best I can say in regards to being a Mother. I love my boys and I would do absolutely anything to see them happy, laughing, playing and just enjoy life. That makes everything worthwhile for me. There are other options in regards to a decision about whether you want to be a mother or not. Adoption is one. I won't try to sugar coat or sway you to do anything that you don't feel ready for or don't want to to. But just try to leave all of your options open in case you change your mind about something. I'm sorry for the rambling. I hope I was able to give a bit of perspective.

It’s definitely the hardest thing you will ever do!!! But it’s totally worth it! Just wait till the first time they say Mommy and reach out for you! Or their first smile! The random hugs and “I love you”s! It’s an amazing roller coaster!!

It’s the hardest but the best. I have everything anyone could want in life and I can tell you my children top it all by a long long way.

Like everyone has said, it’s extremely hard because you don’t have a lot of time for yourself and kids are pretty dang needy. But let me tell you.. NOTHING in this world beats when my little man first wakes up and opens his eyes and sees his mama and then smiles that grin. Or when DD crawls in the bed with me and put her little tiny arms around me.

It’s weird.. you don’t realize right now but you’ll look back one day and it’ll hit you. You NEEDED your baby/ies and didn’t even know it. As hard as it is, you just don’t know love until you have a baby.

Also, it doesn’t always come natural. Even though you’re carrying baby, baby is still a stranger and they come out immediately depending on you for everything. Sometimes it takes a while to get to know/understand your baby and that’s ok. After all, you are just meeting. 💕 It goes by quick even though some days you’ll probably wonder if they’ll ever be 18. 😂

It's beautiful and chaotic. I have days where I think I'm going crazy but also beautiful memories. They love me unconditionally. Yep they require attention love and discipline but they make my life worth it.

Being a mother is hard. It's definitely not for everyone. Consider your options, while you have plenty of time! For me, being a mother was the best decision I have ever made! My children are the very best part of life!