I need everyone opinion about this so I been on child support got a job now a very decent job and I…
I need everyone opinion about this so I been on child support got a job now a very decent job and I ask to do a motion because they was asking me to pay 520 and that was to much that I didn’t have so now I’m gonna put in the amount I can pay but the thing about is this he been keeping me away from my daughter it’s been a month now going on two months he told me I cannot see her or get her and police told him that I can’t which I know is a lie but I left it alone and I tried reach out he won’t respond to any of the text or calls so I told him that I wasn’t gonna get her until I find a job and until we get this child support together because he told me he did it out of spite just because he was mad for taking my daughter to police station because it look like she was getting abused he took me for child support so that was wrong now I’m not seeing her and I told him threw text I wasn’t untill this child support go down and I figure this out I don’t mind paying it but I couldn’t find a job and figure out and deal with that so I told him wait he took it upon his self to take me down there for custody and ask for sole custody and that he don’t want support from me which is so crazy and than gave them the texts on me saying I’m not getting her untill all this is cleared up and I get a job so I court hearing for cusdtoy is on may 7 now my question is will they listen now that he got text messages of me saying that and I’m going show them I have a job now and that I’m on child support and tell them that my friend is still gonna be picking her up times when he can’t I’ll catch a Lyft every other week to get her and he pick her back up like he normally do what do u think they gonna say with me not seeing her because he told me not to and the text message you think I still have a shot I’m seeing my daughter ?
cantdeletebutimgone·
Is he saying you can see her because you weren't paying child support? Because that's not true you absolutely have every right to see your child even if you're not paying right now. I think you should tell the court that he said you can't see her until you start paying child support because he can't do that and that he has been keeping her away from you by ignoring you which he also can't do
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@cooperciera2019, I didn’t want her seeing me go threw all of this and me being depressed so I told him I wasn’t getting her and than at the time the told me to pay 930 now they telling me 520 which is not even nothing I can pay so I put it on hold and I’m going to this hearing and showing them that I work now and I make money and that I can get her
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@momsrmagical, i understand but I’m also gonna try get a lawyer if I can and print out what he told me that I couldn’t get her the police told him that which is a complete lie
cantdeletebutimgone··
@cooperciera2019 good, definitely do that. Do anything and everything you possibly can to help yourself
BakingDaddy ·
You saying you won't see her before may sway the judge in his favor. He can't keep her from you because you aren't paying cs, especially if you have set visitation.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Right but only reason I said it which I stated in the text messages is because i was in mist of finding a job and I had just got told I had to pay all this money and mentally it financially I was not right so that’s reason I said it and than he took it upon his self to take that to them and than ask for sole custody when I been getting her all the time she loves coming to see me and now I got a job and money and I can get her even if I don’t got a ride should fix everything
Ciera Cooper·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@bodybycheetos, also he did the child support out of spite because he was mad at the fact I took my daughter to the police station for a bruise and got a protective order on him so since I was portecting my daughter he took me for that and actually said that so when u actually get hit with it of course naturally your gonna go crazy expertly when I was seeing her and calling and on top of that I was still taking care of her not having a job
Thisisfeeney··
Did he say he did it out of spite? Did they document the mark on her when you took her to get a protective order?
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
yes he told me on phone he did it happen right after I took him and when I took her to the police station they seen it as abuse that’s why they gave me protective order but when we had a hearing they told me it can be anything and she young and play a lot smh so they dropped he case I’m gonna show u what she had in your inbox
Melissa ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Like they said, he cant keep her from you for not paying child support. You really need to seek legal aid. Please look into legal help in your city. They will represent you for little to no money.
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I have the number I just got the number to it so I’m calling tomorrow definitely he took me to get sole custody and won’t let me see her because I told him I was looking for a job and couldn’t get her because of what was going on with this child support that I’m still trying to get together that’s crazy and he take me and show them what I said than take me back to try get sole custody so now I have a job I’m going to show them and print out his text messages
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@cooperciera2019 Good. Keep everything he says, dont say anything crazy to him, dont let him make you ACT crazy. You said you have a job now? That's great. Even if you didnt, there isn't a judge in this country thats going to keep a mother and baby apart. If you aren't on drugs, neglectful or abusive there is no reason you cant have her. You just have to fight!
Ciera Cooper··
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@divinely_favored, I’m not I took him out my phone and I’m not gonna say anything to him untill we in front of judge and for now on I’m gonna just never text him at all since he keeps my text messages and stuff I will just always call but I’m gonna get my mom to do it