OK so what should I do? My mom doesn't like my babys dad. And he wants to come out here and get his life together.. Which I want to do that with him.. But my mom is telling me that he's just playing with my head because I'm younger than him... But we have been together for almost 7 months.. And I want things to work out with us but I just don't want issues with my mom either. I'm super confused and I need some advice.
Heres some super sound advice. If you love the guy your mother's opinion of him should never matter to you. My mother has never gotten along with my husband yet she knows not to mess with my man because ill stand behind my man and the father of my child anyday and honestly your mother needs gi learn to respect the father of your child
Go with your heart. When I got pregnant my mom told me he was gonna leave me and the baby and everything else but yet here we are years and 2 children later..
I would evaluate my relationship w my mom.. has she been overly controlling in the past? Toxic? Extremely selfish? Then perhaps she isn’t right. I wouldn’t disregard what your mother is saying. BUT, with that said, why doesn’t she like him? Are there valid reasons?
Try to look at it all objectively and go from there.