Hey y’all,
Is there really laws against keeping your child away from their grandparent? My boyfriends mom is 1) the worst mom to her own kids and 2) has no respect for me as the mother of her grandchild. My baby is 15 months today, not once has she ever texted me asking how she’s doing, how i’m doing, or to see her. I had an emergency csection 7 weeks early and she never ONCE asked me how I was doing. (news flash, wasn’t doing good) My pregnancy was SO hard, so many complications and she never once asked how i was doing (another news flash, wasn’t doing good)
She disrespected me ON FACEBOOK a few months ago, called me out for my daughter not wearing a jacket in the almost 60 degree weather, told me to use common sense and that i was being stupid (on facebook for everyone to see)
I’m SO sick of her thinking she can treat me like crap and see her granddaughter whenever she wants. Which is only in passing when she’s dropping something off or whatever. I do not like her one bit and I want nothing to do with her. The way she talks to her kids is absolutely unexceptable and she will NEVER be caught talking to my daughter like that.
Now my question is, can she really take me to court and win visitation rights? She has 12 dogs at her house, the house is disgusting, she has pictures all over facebook in the ER getting stitches for breaking up dog fights all the time, she’s been in a mental hospital before for going after one of the dogs with a knife in front of her kids...there’s no way they can give her unsupervised visitation right?
She will do this to me, if I open my mouth and tell her if she doesn’t start having respect for me and trying to be a part of our lives. so I need to make sure she’s not gonna win a case against me. Cuz she will do this.
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wow same. they never reach out to me. my boyfriends entire family. but all I hear is how they never see my daughter. yet they never ask to see her....
Idk about there but I know in PA there aren’t grandparent laws or anything so you can cut em off & there’s nothing they can do . We cut my husbands mother off cause she’s a piece of shit too . She does way too many drugs, she lies, steals, treats all her kids including my husband like shit, she’s scum & not someone I want anywhere around my kids . Especially because I refuse to let my kids think that’s what a “grandma” is .
@jtaylorg, I don’t think it matters where she lives . Only where you & baby reside .
Omg she sounds like a bitch! I would honestly cut all ties with her and like they all said, grandparents DO NOT have visitation rights at all. No worries. 😊
If she’s that shitty of a person, she won’t try to take you to court.
My mum didn’t check up on me when I had my son 11 weeks early but would use him as an excuse to get out of work, she told people he would be retarded due to his prematurity, and she left drugs out where my other son could reach them if he was curious enough so I took all my stuff from her house and haven’t talked to her in 3 1/2 years. She’s too stupid and drugged up to take me to court. If I were you, I wouldn’t worry. Make sure you keep your head up high and give your kiddo the best life imaginable. You don’t need “family” like that in your life.
Yeah, I'm fairly certain grandparents have no actual legal rights to the child, at least in your situation. Death or incompetence of a parent is a different matter, but "She says I'm mean so won't let me see my grandchild" is not a valid reason. If you go that route though, she's bound to bad talk you even more on Facebook or to her friends/family, and there are bound to be people who agree with her half of the story, so be prepared for some more nastiness. Don't let that stop you though! I remember that coat story, it was ridiculous.
I wouldn’t worry too much about it. I would for sure take her off fb and speak up.
No. It sounds like you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
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It’s so crazy how as a parent if you’re trying to protect your kid from
Someone who you don’t deemed fit to be around you or your kid/ kids and the government could just grant them permission to have the rights to see them anyways . Like I don’t understand shit like this . I just googled nyc law and they are more lenient when it comes to grandparent rights 😏 I don’t necessarily get along with my bf mother and she nor the other family members make an effort to see my son they expect for us to do all the work for them in order to have an relationship with him . So because of that and many other reasons !! none of them have seen him since December because honestly that was the last time I WENT OVER THERE. But I refuse to go out of my way for anyone to build an relationship with my child 🤷🏽♀️ If they can’t even put half of that effort back in .