Honestly ever sense our 3rd baby was born everything changed btwn me & hubby😒🥺😔 There is no hugs & kisses also the Intimacy is all wacked!🤮 even tho i want to be with him id hard bc I'm breastfeeding my son & when i want to be with him he falls to sleep and he does not even try to touch me anymore. Idk i sometimes feel like he is talking to someone else but i'm not 💯% sure idk what to do we already try talking things out & nothing changes. I tried making the first move also tried making him a hicky & he told me to stop & then i asked him yesterday he said he was just PLAYING! But he was not playing to me 🤔🤔
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@claudie_02 you could also try watching a movie together after the kids have gone to bed. Get your favorite snacks and drinks and hang out even if it's just for a little bit. Idk something that y'all can do alone but doesn't require a babysitter. For my husband and I we will even just take the kids and go out to dinner as a family. 🤷♀️
@mommyof.3, Good idea thank you do much! Cause he feels like i dont want to have intimacy with him but is not that i am just 😩 exhausted & tired 😓 i told him eventually things will get better
@claudie_02 does he help out with the kiddos? I know the feeling. The best way is to really explain it to him. Then maybe he will get that but also keep trying to have alone time so that way he knows you at least want to hang out with him, you know?
If you can, try a date night. Even if it's only for an hour or two. Maybe that alone time could help. 🤷♀️