Is anyone else’s man totally useless? Orrr just mine? My bf doesn’t work because he doesn’t want to, so he stays home with our daughter. Anytime I’m not at work he stays in the other half of the house. I get needing an break, I was the stay at home parent for 3 years. However, if I’m home from work because I’m puking my guts out, one would think it wouldn’t kill him to help out with her. Not yell at me for not cooking anything for her, unloading the dishwasher, or having the one pair of jeans he wants to wear clean. 🙄🤬
🙁... I wish I could call off work today! But stay at home Moms don’t get to do that!
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else is a stay at home mom? 💗
cantdeletebutimgone·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
Sorry that was so long I just know how you feel and it got me all worked up just typing it out!!!
Sierra Eggert··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’m glad I’m not alone but it sucks my fiancé is exactly like that yesterday Skylar got into something she shouldn’t have and he got mad at her like she knew any better she’s 2! And it was more our faults for not watching her. And I told him that. And other thing is like they don’t know how to freaking multi task like come the frick on it’s not hard. It frustrates me so much because I’ll be doing something and whoever is holding Jordyn and watching sky have to give them back or lay them down to do something like wtfffff it’s definitely not hard
cantdeletebutimgone··
Мама дочки (5 лет)
You definitely are not alone girl. It's hard but we do it. We have to otherwise nothing will get done!!! @mommyof2babygirls
cantdeletebutimgone·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
I've been there, and for the most part I still am. When I was a stay-at-home mom I was expected to do every single teeny tiny little thing. I work full time now and I'm still pretty much expected to do every single teeny tiny little thing. I get up at 5 a.m. every morning and get three people ready for the day drop my daughter off at the babysitter and work from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. pick her up I'm usually home by 3:30 I do some cleaning make dinner and I have to clean that up I do laundry I do all my daughter's care etc.... he does stuff here and there every once in awhile but he has to be asked, never offers, he usually half-asses it anyway and then I have to finish it. There has been times where for example the other day I came home from work and I did a sink full of dishes started laundry then made dinner. When he finished dinner he just went and plopped his ass on the couch while dinner was still sitting on the table I was doing dishes laundry cleaning a litter box Gathering trash for trash day all while I'm getting "mommy mommy mommy mommy". I remember another time when I was a SAHM I was cooking dinner while washing the dishes as I was cooking to keep up with dishes while I was on the phone with our cable company because once again they screwed up our bill while I had my daughter who at the time was about three tugging at my leg. I looked over and he was just sitting on the couch watching the whole thing go down!! Needless to say I needed to freak out and that's the only thing that works. The only way he'll get up and do anything is if I freak out because I'm such a quiet person that when I do that he gets scared. It was hard doing everything as a full-time SAHM. Now, I feel as though I'm still a stay-at-home mom but now I also work. I'm always exhausted and stressed out but if I don't do it it won't get done.
Edith Quintana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Feeeeeeeelllllssss🙌👏