I absolutely LOVE that I will let my fiancé do as he pleases. Examples he gets off work so he goes to Buffalo Wild Wings and drinks with friends from work. But when he is off if I want to go somewhere he gets so pissy when he sits there and talks about how I need to get out of the house or I deserve a break because I’m a stay at home mom which I’m not complaining about being a stay at home mom because I LOVE it with everything in me. I don’t care that I don’t get a break I just hate not getting the help I should from the father of my children.
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I’m glad I’m not alone but it sucks my fiancé is exactly like that yesterday Skylar got into something she shouldn’t have and he got mad at her like she knew any better she’s 2! And it was more our faults for not watching her. And I told him that. And other thing is like they don’t know how to freaking multi task like come the frick on it’s not hard. It frustrates me so much because I’ll be doing something and whoever is holding Jordyn and watching sky have to give them back or lay them down to do something like wtfffff it’s definitely not hard
I've been there, and for the most part I still am. When I was a stay-at-home mom I was expected to do every single teeny tiny little thing. I work full time now and I'm still pretty much expected to do every single teeny tiny little thing. I get up at 5 a.m. every morning and get three people ready for the day drop my daughter off at the babysitter and work from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. pick her up I'm usually home by 3:30 I do some cleaning make dinner and I have to clean that up I do laundry I do all my daughter's care etc.... he does stuff here and there every once in awhile but he has to be asked, never offers, he usually half-asses it anyway and then I have to finish it. There has been times where for example the other day I came home from work and I did a sink full of dishes started laundry then made dinner. When he finished dinner he just went and plopped his ass on the couch while dinner was still sitting on the table I was doing dishes laundry cleaning a litter box Gathering trash for trash day all while I'm getting "mommy mommy mommy mommy". I remember another time when I was a SAHM I was cooking dinner while washing the dishes as I was cooking to keep up with dishes while I was on the phone with our cable company because once again they screwed up our bill while I had my daughter who at the time was about three tugging at my leg. I looked over and he was just sitting on the couch watching the whole thing go down!! Needless to say I needed to freak out and that's the only thing that works. The only way he'll get up and do anything is if I freak out because I'm such a quiet person that when I do that he gets scared. It was hard doing everything as a full-time SAHM. Now, I feel as though I'm still a stay-at-home mom but now I also work. I'm always exhausted and stressed out but if I don't do it it won't get done.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
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Sorry that was so long I just know how you feel and it got me all worked up just typing it out!!!