Please offer advice. I’m at a loss..
Here is an exhausting relationship for you. I need to get things off of my chest, so here goes.
We've been together for a bit now. I love him, more than I've ever loved anyone. He's beautiful and can be so sweet and loving. But everything is so one sided. He doesn't work, doesn't cook, doesn't clean. He contributes nothing to the house except for messes that I end up cleaning up myself. And he doesn't appreciate anything I do, doesn't even seem to notice the majority of it. For the most part he's always in a good mood, but when he gets upset, he becomes so unreasonable. There's no talking to him about it. His communication skills are SEVERELY lacking!! So most of the time it's just a guessing game of trying to figure out what's bothering him this time. Like dude, just tell me what's wrong, how can I fix it or make it better. He won't tell me.
He always wants me to do what HE wants to do. Even when I spend nearly all of my time with him, he wants more. Sometimes it's hard to even get things done like laundry, or dishes cause he expects me to be 24-7 available to him. He will even WAKE ME UP in the MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT, to cater to him. Because he wants to eat or hang out. I rarely get a decent nights sleep and he doesn't care how it affects me during the day.
Like I said, I love him more than anything. But it's so much. I try venting to my friends and family but they are always making excuses for his behavior. "Caylin, he's not even a year old...he's just a baby! Things will get better." but I don't know. Do people really ever change? Or is he just toxic?
(I stole this because it's funny)
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I legit was going to say you with a moocher. 😂🤣 I guess I am partly right. 🤣😂
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Omg I was about to get all serious with this thinking u were talking about your dh!!
I legit was going to say you with a moocher. 😂🤣 I guess I am partly right. 🤣😂
Yeah you got me. I was like “he wakes her up in the middle of the night because he wants to eat?!?! Oh fuck no!” 😂😂
Broooo you had me I was like dam and she has kids too poor girl
I legit was concocting what to say in my head while reading this
Omg💀💀😂😂 this had me so upset for you untill the end.
😂😂😂 oh man I was thinking
How can you still love him??😂😂😂
@leowifey, right I was like dam she’s wayyy too nice 😂
Glad this was a joke because I had a lot to say about that guy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol I was about to tell you that it sounds like you’re with a “man-toddler” 🤣
You asshole. I thought I was about to have to kick your husbands ass
Would you come kick my husband’s butt while I sit back and eat popcorn? I promise I’ll share the popcorn after you’re finished kicking his butt. 🍿
OMG! i had a whole lot to say and was about to tell u to kick him to the curb when i got to the end. best thing i've read all day 😂😂
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You asshole. I thought I was about to have to kick your husbands ass