To go or not to go ? Okay so my husband is a heavy equipment operator. This year his boss is paying the whole team and their wife's to fly out to Las Vegas for an expo work thing. Well the problem is I will be 37 weeks, so I can't fly. BUT we can drive. It will be a 6 hour drive from Colorado to Las Vegas. My doctor said it is 100% okay to go because I'm showing a healthy pregnancy and she doesn't think I'll go into preterm labor and being a ftm I will most likely go over my due date or have a very long labor. My options are I go with my husband and by some freak of nature I go into labor he's there to see his child or he goes alone, something happens and he misses the birth of his child.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I honestly can't wait for the intense pain of contractions, to go in labor and have my husband by my side each step of the way, finally pushing our daughter out info the world just the thought just makes me so emotional and excited I CAN'T WAIT FOR SEPTEMBER ,
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Nikki·
Seems pretty inconsiderate to me. lts hard out there trying to time anything in this Atlanta traffic.
Ashley ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I went to Slipknots last concert a couple of years ago😂. They always end up back together and regardless no. Best case scenario you're heavily pregnant by yourself worst case you're in the hospital and who's taking care of the kids?
Tiffany Sandoval·
Мама четверых детей
Sounds like he’s being a 💩
Chyna·
В ожидании первенца
I think it’s very selfish ! Whether you had the baby or about to have baby it’s all cutting it TOO close as either way you’re not going to feel like tending to other kids by yourself pregnant or just delivered if you have the help ! It’s really TOO much and too much unnecessary worrying and stress on you
🪴📚··
This! You’re not being unreasonable. HE IS.
BunsInMyOven·
ESPECIALLY considering how many other children you have
BunsInMyOven·
Nope he’s being a massive A hole
Cams ·
Asshole. And you’re not a single mother so you don’t need to be in that mindset.
Sunnydays.22·
Yeah he shouldn’t have even considered it an option.
Christy·
Yeah he's an idiot. Babies almost never come on time, you would think he would know this w how many kids you have. What if baby come the day before hes going to leave you and a newborn and all ur kids and go to a concert???
lexi·
Guess I'm in the minority but I'd be irritated, too 🤷🏻♀️ my bf was at a concert that he sees almost every year when I went into labor and he had time from the point of when I said I was showing signs to choose to skip it
blessed2018w9·
I personally feel thats selfish of him and very childish
Courtney Z·
I'm with you on this one, its selfish of him to be thinking of going anywhere at that time. Bottom line. Grow up man.
dawn·
I personally would let him go without a fuss... this will be our 3rd kid, I know if I were to text him that I needed to go to the hospital he’ll leave the concert ASAP. With my son he didn’t get no time off he went to work the day after I was released from the hospital. My husband doesn’t go out often. Pretty much ever. So if he wanted to go to a concert I definitely will support it without making him feel bad about wanting to have fun.
Ana Perez··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
So i guess it’s ok for me to stay home alone with 4 littles while recovering? I mean if I haven’t given birth yet I wouldn’t care but he’s still set on going even after I give birth.
dawn··
I mean in all honesty without trying to hurt your feelings single moms do it all the time.
I was just simply telling you that for me it wouldn’t be a big deal. I wouldn’t make it a big deal either. And who’s to say it’s going to happen after you have the baby. You’re a long way away from that. I think you’re stressing out over nothing. Wait till the time gets closer. See how you’re feeling then. No reason spending the next 20 weeks fighting over it. It’s unnecessary stress.
Ana Perez··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
idc about single moms doing it because I’m not one. Yes it hurts my feelings that he’s choosing a dumb concert over helping his wife with HIS 4 kids. I’m always alone. He works 12 hours a day and instead of taking the little paternity leave has he’d choose to go see a band he’s already seen before.
💙 Autumn 💙·
I think it depends on how far he has to go. If it's not far from home then I'd say let him go and have him take a Bluetooth thing for his phone so if you call it'll be right on his ear and he could actually hear it ringing. If it's far from home I'd tell him too bad your baby is more important.
Ana Perez··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
From home it’s probably an hour away. But not too far from the hospital.
💙 Autumn 💙··
well if you haven't had the baby yet I'd let him go since it's not that far. However if you feel like your going to be having the baby or already gave birth I'd say no because your going to need the help with the other kids if the little one is here. And if your contracting or feeling like it's going to happen he also needs to be there. He should be there for you however you need him to be. If your feeling like he should stay home then he needs to stay home. You and the kids should be number one. Not some concert.
tïffånÿ·
Мама дочки (3 года)
Tell him it could be the last child you’re ever going to give birth to lol ask him what’s more important!
Ana Perez··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
It’s definitely my last kid lol
Mimi·
How far is the concert from home?
A··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@anap1012, If it’s right by the hospital then I personally wouldn’t let it bother me. If the timing isn’t right at the time of the concert, he’ll just skip it. My husband was 4 hours away for work when I went into labor and he still made it just in time for our daughter to be born. It’ll work out just fine!
Mimi··
@anap1012, I would let him go it’s not that far. The chances of you going into labor at the time of the concert are pretty slim and if it happens then he will miss the concert. IMO it’s not any different then him being at work when you go into labour.
Ana Perez··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
it’s very different because he’d be using his paternity leave. Why would I get mad at him for going to work. That’s a help we need. Let’s say he was trying to go to a club for his friends birthday. It’s the same thing. He doesn’t need to go.
Ixcel·
Wow uuumm Slipknot can wait baby can't wait ,,, they're always on tour like every single year hahaha
Ana Perez··
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Thats the thing it could be their last concert or so my husband says. Since everyone is breaking away from the band.
Ixcel··
well to bad for him you're more important and the kids than those crazy ass