I need opinions because my thick skulled husband does not seem to understand the problem here. My due date is September 5th. There will be a slipknot concert September 3rd. Obviously I could be going in to labor then or a week beforehand. My husband bought the tickets and is set on going. He sees no problem in going wether I’m 1-2 weeks pp. and if I happen to go into labor that day he’ll “leave the co very early”. Am I being a selfish brat like he’s calling me or is he the one being an insensitive asshole?
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I went to Slipknots last concert a couple of years ago😂. They always end up back together and regardless no. Best case scenario you're heavily pregnant by yourself worst case you're in the hospital and who's taking care of the kids?
I think it’s very selfish ! Whether you had the baby or about to have baby it’s all cutting it TOO close as either way you’re not going to feel like tending to other kids by yourself pregnant or just delivered if you have the help ! It’s really TOO much and too much unnecessary worrying and stress on you
ESPECIALLY considering how many other children you have
Nope he’s being a massive A hole
Asshole. And you’re not a single mother so you don’t need to be in that mindset.
Yeah he's an idiot. Babies almost never come on time, you would think he would know this w how many kids you have. What if baby come the day before hes going to leave you and a newborn and all ur kids and go to a concert???
Guess I'm in the minority but I'd be irritated, too 🤷🏻♀️ my bf was at a concert that he sees almost every year when I went into labor and he had time from the point of when I said I was showing signs to choose to skip it
I'm with you on this one, its selfish of him to be thinking of going anywhere at that time. Bottom line. Grow up man.
I personally would let him go without a fuss... this will be our 3rd kid, I know if I were to text him that I needed to go to the hospital he’ll leave the concert ASAP. With my son he didn’t get no time off he went to work the day after I was released from the hospital. My husband doesn’t go out often. Pretty much ever. So if he wanted to go to a concert I definitely will support it without making him feel bad about wanting to have fun.
So i guess it’s ok for me to stay home alone with 4 littles while recovering? I mean if I haven’t given birth yet I wouldn’t care but he’s still set on going even after I give birth.
@anap1012, I mean in all honesty without trying to hurt your feelings single moms do it all the time.
I was just simply telling you that for me it wouldn’t be a big deal. I wouldn’t make it a big deal either. And who’s to say it’s going to happen after you have the baby. You’re a long way away from that. I think you’re stressing out over nothing. Wait till the time gets closer. See how you’re feeling then. No reason spending the next 20 weeks fighting over it. It’s unnecessary stress.
@lakota-winyan, idc about single moms doing it because I’m not one. Yes it hurts my feelings that he’s choosing a dumb concert over helping his wife with HIS 4 kids. I’m always alone. He works 12 hours a day and instead of taking the little paternity leave has he’d choose to go see a band he’s already seen before.
I think it depends on how far he has to go. If it's not far from home then I'd say let him go and have him take a Bluetooth thing for his phone so if you call it'll be right on his ear and he could actually hear it ringing. If it's far from home I'd tell him too bad your baby is more important.
From home it’s probably an hour away. But not too far from the hospital.
@anap1012 well if you haven't had the baby yet I'd let him go since it's not that far. However if you feel like your going to be having the baby or already gave birth I'd say no because your going to need the help with the other kids if the little one is here. And if your contracting or feeling like it's going to happen he also needs to be there. He should be there for you however you need him to be. If your feeling like he should stay home then he needs to stay home. You and the kids should be number one. Not some concert.
Tell him it could be the last child you’re ever going to give birth to lol ask him what’s more important!
@anap1012, If it’s right by the hospital then I personally wouldn’t let it bother me. If the timing isn’t right at the time of the concert, he’ll just skip it. My husband was 4 hours away for work when I went into labor and he still made it just in time for our daughter to be born. It’ll work out just fine!
@anap1012, I would let him go it’s not that far. The chances of you going into labor at the time of the concert are pretty slim and if it happens then he will miss the concert. IMO it’s not any different then him being at work when you go into labour.
@mimixtmn, it’s very different because he’d be using his paternity leave. Why would I get mad at him for going to work. That’s a help we need. Let’s say he was trying to go to a club for his friends birthday. It’s the same thing. He doesn’t need to go.
Wow uuumm Slipknot can wait baby can't wait ,,, they're always on tour like every single year hahaha
Thats the thing it could be their last concert or so my husband says. Since everyone is breaking away from the band.
@anap1012 well to bad for him you're more important and the kids than those crazy ass
Seems pretty inconsiderate to me. lts hard out there trying to time anything in this Atlanta traffic.