So i have a friend who is very very tiny and has had 2 kids via c section and she claimed she was getting bullied by other moms telling her that having a c section is not "real labor" and basically mom shaming her for having to have 1 emergency c section and 1 scheduled. I am seriously flabbergasted that people would even think in this way. I for one had my daughter completely naturally and i give mad props to the woman who have c sections. I was blessed with being able to go back to work within 2 weeks and bc im a worker bee that worked for me and bc my daughter was such a quiet nb i feel like i would have been bored out of my mind at home. I know a lot of people dont work that way and i totally get that but i could never be a stay at home mom and im so glad i didnt have a c section bc i feel like i would have totally lost my mind. So to all those moms being mom shamed for having a c section or for staying home and taking care of the kids. Good job. Because being a stay at home mom is a job and you earned that scar! Wear it proud.
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I’ve had people tell me I took the easy way out because I had a c section. I had no choice because I have pins in my hips and she was a big baby and they said she would more than likely get stuck and they would probably have to break her clavicle to get her out. I was scheduled for a c section at 39 weeks but she decided to come at 37 weeks. By time I got to the hospital I was 100% effaced and almost 7 centimeters dilated so I experienced c section pain and labor. The worst part was them pushing on my stomach afterwards 😬.
That sounds like a journey. Im very lucky that my labor was smoothe with no issues but ik not everyone experiences that and i feel so bad bc thats a journey that you take your body through and then on top of the responsibilities of being a mom. I praise all of you.
Yeah people are jerks. I had our daughter completely naturally with no pain medications not bc i wanted to be like a "natural mom" or whatever. I dont like the way pain medications make me feel and i was terrified of having to be awake and someone literally cutting a baby out of me.
I even give props to the moms that get epidurals. The thought of a needle going into my spinal region makes me cringe hard.
I've had 3 and will have my 4th in Dec. They suck but we do have real labor we feel the pains and the pressure and then weeks after. Pisses me off when other mom's say we took the easy way out. I was 19 and my daughter flat lined so I had to have one to save her life.
Yes I agree. I had a vaginal birth and can’t imagine if I had to have a c section. I also give mad props to c section moms cuz their recovery is way harder. My sister had a c section so I seen it first hand. And we are both stay at home moms and yes it is hard but I find it rewarding
Honestly ive thought about staying home with our daughter bc i work only 2 days a week but every time i think about that i cringe internally bc i really love my job and i enjoy the people i work with to an extent and i have so much respect for my main boss i wouldnt want to just abandon my job and then later find out i want to go back bc being at home didnt work for me. Yeah i dont get many hours so sometimes i feel like i could still work and also very successfully take care of our daughter but it all depends on what the future brings. I went to school for teaching so i have thought on more than one occasion that i wanted to home school our daughter when shes of age but i also really like the concept of the christian private school here in our town. I dont always like the idea of public school because the teachings are sanctioned by the government and they decide what is relevant to teach the children and i believe that at any age you can appropriately teach a child anything using several different methods. Its all about the approach and i just dont feel like public schools get that.
@theharmans2018, yeah my husband and I have talked about homeschooling my son at great length. We both agree to do it. And I have been saving resources for homeschooling and my husband gets resources too since he works at our local school system
I swear some ppl get me so upset when they want to start shaming or down grading you because of a c-section whether vaginal or c-section labor is labor and doesnt make us less than a women. This is gonna be my 3rd c-section in gods will. Dont listen to negativity