Not mom related, sorry in advance. So last month was the 5 year mark of my best friend losing her…
Not mom related, sorry in advance.
So last month was the 5 year mark of my best friend losing her mother. I was there for her and have been there for her as best I could. On the 5 year mark I called her and checked up on her and made sure she was okay, but then I turned it about me and I didn’t want to but I wanted to share the pregnancy stuff with her.
Well, yesterday was the 5 year mark of me losing my dad. Unlike when we lost her mom, I wasn’t as sad when I lost my dad (he was an asshole), but at the same time, I’m upset she didn’t remember/ didn’t call me/ didn’t text me just to check in.
Is it stupid of me to be upset over her not contacting me?
Erika·
Has she done it the pass years? Because I am not good keeping dates n since u said ur dad wasn't that good probably she didn't think it was something too important for u 🤔
Kimberly ··
Usually she does around this time. I’m not sure if she remembers the actual date but usually she calls me a few days before the anniversary of it.
Erika··
@kimberly_the-preemie-mom OK probably she will call u later n say sorry
Erika··
@erikajsg23 I think it is normal how u feel but remember friendship is for free n if u have been there supporting her that means u are a very good friend not saying she isn't but because even she forgot this time she had remember for the past 4 years I have a friend who lives in other state n I never remember the exactly date of birthday but I call her some days before or after this month I forgot it n she text me so I said sorry n that is it.