So my brother is 28 years old his gf is 22 and theyve been together for 2 months. He lives with my mother and she comes and stays sometimes. My mom told me last night she got in the middle of a big fight they had bc she feels like he needs to grow up, whuch he does, and stop playing trading card games like Magic and he feels like she should stop smoking cigarettes and take care of her body more. Honestly i dont think its right for them to bring my mother into their problems and im sick of my brother using my mother and other people so he has an excuse to not grow the eff up. Ive been biting my tongue lately and last night just super pissed me off. I dont think its my business but whenever i say something to him about his shit he actually tries to straighten up but i feel like i shouldnt have to. Im 25 years old, married and a mother. Hes 28 years old, has no car, lives with my mother and acts like the world owes him everything. I shouldnt have to be his mother and knock some sense into him but my mothers too nice for his shit and shes being used by him and im about to blow up about it. Hes using her house, her car, eating her food, using her money. Urgh.