I know but honestly she changed even when I leave my daughter with my mom for a weekend I ask her to hangout and she leaves me hanging calls me last minute to say she rather hang out with some one else
She expects me to be able to hang out with her on her time but I work five days a week my daughter in daycare from 7:00 am to 7:30 pm and weekends are the only time I can spend some real time with she don't understand that. So she complains. I can be disappearing every other night to go drink with her
Maybe she didn’t want to hang out with you and the baby. Try planning something just with you and her. And if She wants to genuinely see the baby she should make the initiative.