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I need to rant because I have nobody to talk to and I’m really not okay right now 😭 Being a stay at…

I need to rant because I have nobody to talk to and I’m really not okay right now 😭 Being a stay at home mom is starting to make me really depressed. My panic attacks are starting to come back everyday now. My son is attached to my hip 24/7 he screams bloody murder the second I put him down and he won’t nap anymore. I can’t get anything done for myself during the day at all. The first few months he was a very easy baby but now it’s just so much harder and it’s taking a huge toll on me. I was never the kind of person that liked staying home, since I was a little girl I HATED staying home. So being home 24/7 is torture to me but every time I try to take my son out in public by myself he has a meltdown and then I get anxiety and we just go home. I don’t have a life anymore all I do is take care of my son and clean my house. I don’t even take care of myself anymore. I lost so much weight because I’m not eating. I don’t have anyone to call during the day to help me at all. Everybody that I know works, I can’t even call someone when I’m having a rough time and just need to talk. My boyfriend works from 6am-7pm and by the time he comes home its almost lucas’ bedtime so I watch him bymyself all day. I also go to school on top of it so I haven’t been able to get my homework done lately because I just feel so overwhelmed. I feel so lost and depressed and I really don’t know what to do😭

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Kasandra Featherston 11.04.2019

I COMPLETELY understand I used to never be home I hated staying in but that’s what I do now I fully take care of my daughter by myself, her father sleeps all day until 5pm and gets up and gets ready to go to work until he comes back home around 6am, then he eats and goes to bed again. My daughter went through that stage a couple months ago, it’s a lot easier now with her but she still won’t let me even leave the room without her for a second to use the bathroom lol. Plus I have zero friends anymore because they don’t have children and they don’t understand that I can’t just leave whenever I want and go out and do whatever anymore.

Kasandra Featherston 11.04.2019

If you need anyone I’m here!

Emily11.04.2019

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Aw thank you so much I really appreciate it. I have no friends either :( it would be so much better if I had friends I could talk to or come over during the day but I literally have no friends and it sucks. I used to have so many but nobody bothers talking to me or inviting me anywhere anymore bc they just assume I can’t come. This stage has been such a hard adjustment for me, I was excited about it getting warm out so I can take him to the park but all he does is cry and throw tantrums all day so I don’t want to leave the house. He used to love going in his jumper or seat but now he HATES it and screams bloody murder if I even try to put him in anything bc he just wants to be held and be with me. When does this get easier 😭

Kasandra Featherston 11.04.2019

message me!!

Marcilia Mariah11.04.2019

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You can talk to me if you want to, I’m a stay at home mom too with no friends to talk to whenever you want to talk I’m a message away 😂

Emily11.04.2019

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Thank you so much!! I have no friends either so feel free to message me too I don’t talk to anyone all day 😭

Marcilia Mariah11.04.2019

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same here, I feel like I forget how to talk to people or keep a conversation with anyone because it’s just me and my baby most of the time my fiancé is usually on his phone or doing things and now he’s starting to work night shift on the 17th so I’ll really be alone

Emily11.04.2019

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me too!!! I don’t know how to make small talk anymore ever since I started being a stay at home mom. I never talk to anybody all day everyday and it’s so depressing.

Marcilia Mariah11.04.2019

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I feel you girl 🙏🏼

I’m sorry to hear that you’re having a hard time. I’ve been there. My husband works out of town and only come home on weekends, and I care for our 5 kids I’m also pregnant. All you really can do is take it one day at a time. Try your best to relax... My 4 year old also has meltdowns when I take her out in public, I’m having her tested for autism. I had to find a way to deal... But like I said one day at a time. I’m here if you need me...

Emily11.04.2019

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Thank you so much❤️ I’m trying to relax but it’s so hard because I can’t even take two minutes for myself without him crying. He’s never been like this until two weeks ago. He is so attached to me and it’s making it so hard to get through the days especially when I can’t take him out because he will probably cry. I’ve been dealing with being a stay at home mom pretty well until two weeks ago the adjustment is just so hard and overwhelming.

Kasandra Featherston 11.04.2019

If you need anyone I’m here!

Emily11.04.2019

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Kasandra Featherston 11.04.2019

message me!!

Marcilia Mariah11.04.2019

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You can talk to me if you want to, I’m a stay at home mom too with no friends to talk to whenever you want to talk I’m a message away 😂

Marcilia Mariah11.04.2019

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@babybump21, same here, I feel like I forget how to talk to people or keep a conversation with anyone because it’s just me and my baby most of the time my fiancé is usually on his phone or doing things and now he’s starting to work night shift on the 17th so I’ll really be alone

Emily11.04.2019

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me too!!! I don’t know how to make small talk anymore ever since I started being a stay at home mom. I never talk to anybody all day everyday and it’s so depressing.

Marcilia Mariah11.04.2019

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I feel you girl 🙏🏼

Sha11.04.2019

Do you have a carrier? When my son was a newborn, he went through that stage so I used to wear him while I did my chores around the house or went outside.

Emily11.04.2019

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I do but I’ve been having very bad back pain and every time I wear him it KILLS my back 😩

Sha12.04.2019

put him on your back instead. There are carriers that can be worn either way.

Naomi11.04.2019

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You’re not alone at all! I’m a stay at home mom as well my boyfriend doesn’t go to work until 2:30 however he sits at the tv all day playing video games and gets annoyed if my kids or I bother him so I’m pretty much alone with them from the time they wake to the time they go to bed . It’s hard the depression can get real but if you ever need someone I’m always here. I was doing the school thing to I dropped out because of how overwhelmed I was and I still struggle everyday cause it’s hard to take care of kids alone. To all the single mothers I seriously take my hat off to y’all like it’s hard and I have my boyfriend not that he does a lot but it’s a lot! I’m here like I said if you want I’ll even give you my number you can text/call me whenever you’re having a tough time no judgment will be made on my part cause I’m not perfect

Emily11.04.2019

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Awww thank you so much!! I say all the time I don’t know how single moms do it because idek how I would survive without my boyfriends help. It’s soooo hard!!!! I think the worst part is how lonely it gets. Everyone tells me all the time how lucky I am but I don’t feel lucky. I know it sounds bad but I just hate being home that’s how I’ve always been I feel like I’m stuck in a jail cell when I’m home all the time. To make it worse there’s a measles outbreak where I live so I can’t take my son anywhere.

Naomi11.04.2019

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I can understand the feeling lonely I tell my boyfriend all the time I feel lonely and he gets mad because he’s here till he goes to work but he’s mostly playing video games or sleeping and I try to explain that to him but he says the kids are here but they can’t sit and have an actual conversation with me then he tells me to go make friends . I don’t leave home unless I’m going to the grocery store or going to visit my parents . It’s hard raising children with a partner and/or without a partner us moms deal with A LOT

ErikaK11.04.2019

Get familiar with the wonder weeks! It sounds like he is just going through a phase... this always happens to me too, and just when you're at your wit's ends, everything is back to normal and you can breathe again. :) also, maybe check out some parent and tot swim times at your local pool? It's a great way to meet other moms! The nice weather will hopefully help you a bit too. Maybe get into gardening so you can spend some time outside with your baby (that's my plan 😁)

Emily11.04.2019

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I do have that app it says he’s going through a leap in 10 days so I don’t think that’s it 😭😭 it’s really cold where I live still so the pool isn’t an option yet. I just can’t wait for it to get warm so I can take him to the park

ErikaK11.04.2019

you dont have an indoor pool?

Emily12.04.2019

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there prob is one around here I just haven’t really looked!

I need to rant because I have nobody to talk to and I’m really not okay right now 😭 Being a stay at…

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