I'm so confused right now by my fiance...when it comes to intimate times, I'm always the one who initiates it..is it selfish that I would like him to be the one to make a move first..since it seems like he only makes a move on himself. I confronted him yesterday all flustered cos he doesn't really touch me unless I make the first move. With how stressed I get he used to do it sometimes but now it's like never...idk how to feel. I tell him, he says I'm overreacting.
I don’t think you’re overreacting I think it is bothering you and you addressed it and he should communicate with you about it. Have you always made the move first? It’s not selfish at all that you want him to make the first move.