Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.
I don't even recognize my child anymore 😢 It's going to be a long couple months trying to straighten him back out. I just hope I can. He absolutely hates me for disciplining him. And apparently his dad has taught him a colorful assortment of cuss words 😡
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Fuckyourself·
Omg😭 this post broke my heart, hugs mama😢❤️
Kayyyy·
One of the best things I’ve ever heard is this: Do I want to give my children the privilege of having both mommy and daddy together? Absolutely, I’d go through hell and back for that. But I will not sit in a toxic and unhappy situation teaching my children that it’s okay to deal with being unhappy and living a lie for the sake of child.
It’s what really showed me being with noahs dad was a no go. I’ve seen soo many quotes that go like that. & honestly it’s hard and heartbreaking for not only the children but for the parents as well. But what’s even worse is showing the littles that it’s okay to fight, be unhappy, sad.. whatever the specific situation is. I’m so sorry you’re going through this love.. and I pray and hope that everything gets better 💕 Just comfort him, and the others, by showing them mommy is always there,. And that daddy is always around. No questions asked. Just because daddy isn’t there doesn’t mean daddy isn’t always with him even when he physically can’t be. I can’t imagine hearing little Mauriz say that, I wanna cry too and I’m not even there 😪 He will be okay though.. I promise. Just continuously remind him he still has you both, always ❤️❤️
Love you girl!
Teelah ··
Мама четверых детей
Love you too ❤
squishymommy1·
Oh this breaks my heart!!!!! Poor guy. Hugs mama.
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Exactly what @mama.kay said 👆
My heart broke reading this so sorry for what you're going through, but if its for the best it'll be worth it. Stay strong mama! ❤
Jaime·
Мама четверых детей
This just broke my heart, I know it’s probably a super rough time for you right now Mama, my parents got divorced when I was a lot older 21 to be exact and it had a big impact on all of us kids even being adults cause we knew all the details of everything that we shouldn’t have known, I would have preferred them getting divorced when I was a lot younger, but then again I don’t know how it would have been back then anyways... I just know that maybe there’s never a good time for those kind of things but I’ll be praying for your family
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺·
I'm so sorry mama! That is so heartbreaking. As the other's have said though, you need to do what's going to be best for you all. Living in a toxic situation is of no benefit to any of you. Your doing the right thing, as hard as it will be. Hugs to you guys
Teelah ·
Мама четверых детей
@tattoomamaxo @mama.kay @squishymommy1 @belladee @missjaimelee @mamagunn.no.1 thanks ladies! I'm trying to stay strong for my kids, but seeing him so broken is killing me.. and even though he's so sad it's like he's trying to make sure I'm okay too.. he keeps coming up to me and hugging me and telling me he loves me so so much!! 😭❤ this is all harder than I thought it would be but it's for the best.. hurts like hell right now but I have to be okay for my kids and do what I have to to make sure they're okay and taken care of!!
squishymommy1··
Hugs to everyone
Kayyyy··
Omgoshh he’s the sweetest boy ever 😭😭💕 nobody would expect you to be okay right now, even the kids. It’s okay to not be okay sometimes.. don’t forget that! You’re such a good mama!! Sending so so much love, prayers and healing ❤️
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺··
That is so sweet 💙 what a special little man! I can't imagine how hard it would be and what your going through, but you are doing great. Stay strong babe. It will all be ok. It's beautiful that he's there for you just as much as you are for him too.
rebecca ·
Oh no poor kiddo I agree just comfort him
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Awe 😭😭😭 poor babe I’m so sorry babe!! But you got this and the kids might hurt a lot now just like you but you will all be better off and happier eventually as long as Benjamin stays in their lifes❤️
Fuckyourself·
You are so strong❤️ your kids are lucky to have you!
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I am so sorry you’re going through this! Must be so heartbreaking 😭 you’re so strong you will get through this just take it day by day ♥️
Stephanie·
☹️ awe this makes me sad but also proud of him. Love to you all!
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Awe babe! I didnt know you was going through this 💔 my heart hurts for you but I know it had to be toxic for it to get to that point! Big hugs to you!! One day at a time, you'll be just fine, beautiful!
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Oh no I’m soo sorry to hear that he’s having such a hard time that makes me so sad. Just stay strong for the babies and don’t feel bad you’re doing what’s best for you guys and Mauriz will understand that when he’s older. Just hold him tight and comfort him any chance you get. If you want to talk please message me! I’m always here if you need to vent.
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That’s so sad. It will be some bumps on the road but if you both co-parent amicably the kids will be ok.