Had a conversation with my boyfriend about I'm not tied down basically and he didn't like that. I…
Had a conversation with my boyfriend about I'm not tied down basically and he didn't like that. I mean I'm tied to my family but as for us I'm not tied down and neither is he. Am I wrong or what. I'm not married, hense I'm not tied down. I can walk away anytime I feel like it. In a marriage I feel like it's harder to only for the fact that marriage is made to be once in a lifetime thing. If you're just dating someone, ok. It doesnt work out well time to move on. If that's how I feel in a dating relationship, then that's how I feel. I'm not going to sit here and madebas if my own personal opinion is wrong. Because it's not. It's how I am how I think and how things just are in my book.
Where’s Waldo·
Are you hoping he decides to settle down and get married?
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Not at all. I don't want marriage at this time in my life and I also don't want to act like I'm married to anyone. Otherwise might as well be, and I'm not ready for that
MB·
If you aren't dating to marry then what are you doing lol
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
I am, but at the same time I'm not going to play married when I'm only dating someone
MB··
ehh I understand what you're saying but if y'all are living together that's pretty much what you're doing anyways.
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Kind of but not really. At the same time we have our own lives
Ashley Nicole Williams·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
you have the right to your own opinion/ideas. i feel like you can easily walk away in marriage or just dating marriage just is a legal binding contract with a piece of paper. dont get me wrong it should be special and once in a lifetime but thats not always how it works. honestly i thin any kind of relationship is hard to walk away from if there are children involved but with marriages there are divorces
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
It's just how I was brought up. Marriage to me is supposed to be a one time thing and if you go into a marriage thinking of the odds and easily can walk away then I don't see the point of being married to that person. If I'm going to marry someone it's life. At least try everything in the books to fix things before divorce. Because I agree some people rush into marriage and later in life realize they shouldn't be with that person or they had different priorities before being married, got married anyways then grew apart.
Ashley Nicole Williams··
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
i was raised the same way and am married and i love my husband dearly and hope that we stay together forever i just know thats not how things always end up was all i was saying. i was with someone for 5 years prior to getting with my husband and i was engaged to him and it didnt work out.
LEO Wifey·
If my bf told me when we were dating that he felt he wasn't tied down, I'd assume he doesn't see me as someone he plans to be with long term. Or that he's already seeing other women on the side. That term probably means different things to people so I could see why he might be upset if he thought you two were long term or serious.
Lindsay·
I understand what you’re saying and honestly feel the same way. I’ve been married before. It was not easy to walk away from that. My SO and I say we are engaged and have been together 5 years. We have a baby together but neither of us have any desire to get married. We are happy and as long as it stays that way, neither of us will walk away. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that in my opinion.