So sick of my brother. He is 29 years old and still lives with my parents. Has a job but no car. His girlfriend is 22 years old, a car and a place of her own. Hes constantly complaining that he doesnt have his life together and says that i live a good life and am already established at 25. Idk how to tell him that he needs to grow up without being rude. My husband and i have been together 10 years and we worked our butts off to be where we are now so that we can be established and give our daughter everything at our age. Ik people grow at different rates but this December hell be 30 years old and hes still living with my folks. Am i wrong to tell him he needs to grow up? Or should i just leave it alone? The only reason im angry is hes constantly taking jabs at me that somehow i was privileged and he wasnt when we grew up in the same way with the same parents in the same house. Like..?
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Wait to speak up when he makes jabs. He sounds immature. My husband and i were talking bout this tonight how we worked hard all our life to be established now. Our hard work paid off. We are rich but I get to stay home with my son
Yeah my husband went to 4 years of school after hs and i was sick all 4 years of my hs career so im lucky to have passed hs and i worked my ass off to get established in a job and make my own money. Yeah i did move back to my parents shortly before we got married bc we were getting established housing and needed a go between but it was only for about 2 to 3 months and i paid my parents for the temp housing arrangement. Hes living there scott free right now with no responsibilities, no bills to pay, steals their food, drives their car. Totally lives off of them. My dad works hard for his money and i dont think at 55 years old his goal was to work hard for his money to just waste it on his lazy 29 year old son. Yeah he will bc hes that person but making jabs at me and my family is not cool. I still work bc im a busy person and enjoy working but i dont work often bc we dont need the money. I literally work for me.