So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd…
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
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I agree with you. I don’t have a problem with celebrating another baby but having a shower where you expect more presents is a little crazy. Realistically you should have every thing you need at this point so why not have a diaper shower instead? I wouldn’t expect anyone to give me three separate presents just because I’m having another baby.
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I’m just here for the comments
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
They are pretty amusing
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all over a venting post 😂 like it’s not even that serious.
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
it’s not but ya know these pick me females like to tear others down 😂
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
now they are mad I’m deleting their rude comments lol
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why are you deleting them?
Nikki ··
I thought mom.life was deleting them lol 🙃
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
because they keep calling me a bitch and telling me to mind my business which I get but they can say stuff without being rude
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
lol no you can delete people’s comments from your posts
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lol no still MIA but that’s fine by me. I like mom.life better loosely moderated. Freedom of speech and all
Nikki ··
I know that lol. But they did end up deleting my comments on one of my posts because it got a little to heated & disabled my comments 😩
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that’s crazy I must have missed that.. I still wouldn’t delete comments though. It makes it confusing to follow along.. if I were you I’d just delete the whole post. It got out of hand.
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goddamn what was it about? I missed the whole damn thing
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
they all attacked me for having an opinion about a girl I’ve know for 10+ years taking advantage of her family and friends by having a baby shower with each pregnancy when two of her kids were girls
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
some of these women on here don’t know how to act
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Yeah this is a common issue on mom.life. The same group of women always assume they understand the entirety of a situation based off of the one paragraph OP shared regarding said situation.
Makes no sense but it’s definitely what fuels a lot of drama on the app.
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
I also think if ur gonna be having more than one kid you should be able to afford everything you need for that child
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
yeah. It’s like high school on here sometimes lol. But I just delete the rude comments and move on. One girl said “you should just block me” like no I’m not gonna block you. You should be mature enough not to be a brat
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see these are all opinions though that if you share, people are going to put their two cents in about it. Personally, I don’t give a shit. About literally any of it. But I’m just saying for future reference, it’s not your fault but expect to get these comments when you say things like that. Everyone has different opinions on all of those subjects
Nikki ··
this was a while back but about leaving your kids in the car alone
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
I understand but calling me jealous and a bitch was totally out of line
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I agree. That’s definitely over the top and shouldn’t have been said. Also, even high school wasn’t this bad in my experience.
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oh man, yeah I didn’t see it. Just curious, were you pro or against leaving your kids alone in the car? 😅
Nikki ··
hell no! I cannot believe how many people used excuses as to why people forgot their kids in cars. I was shocked 😳!!!!
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
lol right!
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I’m just really curious. You said you felt attacked and people called you out your name which never happened in my comment all I said was.. What’s done for one is done for all in my opinion, every baby should be celebrated. What’s rude about that cause I’m honestly curious lmao
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omg stopppp I had this argument with some women last summer and the same thing happened. “Oh we need to be understanding of people’s circumstances”, ummm nooo. Sorry. If leaving your kids alone in the car is a possibility, you shouldn’t have kids. That’s often a life or death situation so there’s no room for error there.
Nikki ··
exactly!!!!!!
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
i deleted comments that had ride replies
Courtney··
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)
there’s no excuse to leaving a child alone in a car 🤦🏻♀️ people try to justify everything