Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
Courtney
Courtney
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd…

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that

63

Лучший комментарий

price

E

I agree with you. I don’t have a problem with celebrating another baby but having a shower where you expect more presents is a little crazy. Realistically you should have every thing you need at this point so why not have a diaper shower instead? I wouldn’t expect anyone to give me three separate presents just because I’m having another baby.

Отметок «Нравится»: 4
mom.uncensored

💛

I’m just here for the comments

Отметок «Нравится»: 5
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

They are pretty amusing

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
mom.uncensored

💛

all over a venting post 😂 like it’s not even that serious.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

it’s not but ya know these pick me females like to tear others down 😂

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

now they are mad I’m deleting their rude comments lol

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

why are you deleting them?

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

I thought mom.life was deleting them lol 🙃

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

because they keep calling me a bitch and telling me to mind my business which I get but they can say stuff without being rude

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

lol no you can delete people’s comments from your posts

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

lol no still MIA but that’s fine by me. I like mom.life better loosely moderated. Freedom of speech and all

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

I know that lol. But they did end up deleting my comments on one of my posts because it got a little to heated & disabled my comments 😩

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

that’s crazy I must have missed that.. I still wouldn’t delete comments though. It makes it confusing to follow along.. if I were you I’d just delete the whole post. It got out of hand.

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

goddamn what was it about? I missed the whole damn thing

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

they all attacked me for having an opinion about a girl I’ve know for 10+ years taking advantage of her family and friends by having a baby shower with each pregnancy when two of her kids were girls

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

some of these women on here don’t know how to act

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

Yeah this is a common issue on mom.life. The same group of women always assume they understand the entirety of a situation based off of the one paragraph OP shared regarding said situation.

Makes no sense but it’s definitely what fuels a lot of drama on the app.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

I also think if ur gonna be having more than one kid you should be able to afford everything you need for that child

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

yeah. It’s like high school on here sometimes lol. But I just delete the rude comments and move on. One girl said “you should just block me” like no I’m not gonna block you. You should be mature enough not to be a brat

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

see these are all opinions though that if you share, people are going to put their two cents in about it. Personally, I don’t give a shit. About literally any of it. But I’m just saying for future reference, it’s not your fault but expect to get these comments when you say things like that. Everyone has different opinions on all of those subjects

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

this was a while back but about leaving your kids in the car alone

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

I understand but calling me jealous and a bitch was totally out of line

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

I agree. That’s definitely over the top and shouldn’t have been said. Also, even high school wasn’t this bad in my experience.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
mom.uncensored

💛

oh man, yeah I didn’t see it. Just curious, were you pro or against leaving your kids alone in the car? 😅

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

hell no! I cannot believe how many people used excuses as to why people forgot their kids in cars. I was shocked 😳!!!!

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

lol right!

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
makeupmomplustwo_

S ♥️

I’m just really curious. You said you felt attacked and people called you out your name which never happened in my comment all I said was.. What’s done for one is done for all in my opinion, every baby should be celebrated. What’s rude about that cause I’m honestly curious lmao

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

omg stopppp I had this argument with some women last summer and the same thing happened. “Oh we need to be understanding of people’s circumstances”, ummm nooo. Sorry. If leaving your kids alone in the car is a possibility, you shouldn’t have kids. That’s often a life or death situation so there’s no room for error there.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

exactly!!!!!!

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

i deleted comments that had ride replies

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

there’s no excuse to leaving a child alone in a car 🤦🏻‍♀️ people try to justify everything

Отметок «Нравится»: 1

Комментарии

dope.ass.mom

Nikki

No that sounds a little ridiculous. Especially it being her 3rd unless it was a different gender. I had 2 showers but that’s only because I had a girl and then a boy 2 yrs later (and honestly didn’t even want a shower lol).

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

It’s a boy this time but she’s already gone and gotten stuff for him and her family has already gifted her a bunch of stuff

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
price

E

I agree with you. I don’t have a problem with celebrating another baby but having a shower where you expect more presents is a little crazy. Realistically you should have every thing you need at this point so why not have a diaper shower instead? I wouldn’t expect anyone to give me three separate presents just because I’m having another baby.

Отметок «Нравится»: 4
verguinia

Vee

Мама двоих (младенец)

If she can afford it that's great I didnt want a baby y shower for my 1st one but a friend invited all my friends and didnt deliver so I had to take over that's how it happened and the second baby my church surprised me I did enjoy some of the gifts they really helped me and I am thankful I was able to get baby showers and celebrate my children before they where born:)

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
verguinia

Vee

Мама двоих (младенец)

@courtney017 :( it doesnt make sense

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

it really doesn’t. Like use that money for the things you need

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
verguinia

Vee

Мама двоих (младенец)

I did that actually I got a stroller and bed and mattress

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
raisinglittlegamers

Uhhhh

I think it depends on how close the kids are and are they the same gender?

My girls were 4 years apart so I started completely over. I had already gave all her baby stuff away. I personally don't like hoarding stuff so 🤷

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

They are only like 10 months apart

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mamaof2soon

Leopard

I think it depends on how close in age and gender ? If she has all the same gender and they 9 months apart lol then that’s a lol excessive lol 😂

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

All her kids are like 10-12 months apart

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
whtumean

Wht U Mean

I had a friend who got pregnant with another boy when her son was like nine months and she had another baby shower which I mean was whatever. But what bugged me was that in her registry she had all this stuff for her son and the baby. And basically wrote not to show up to her baby shower if you hadn't brought two gifts for each kid 🤷🏽‍♀️

And of course she included a lot of items that she already had from her other baby but quote she couldn't use that because her son had used it...

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

@courtney017, her oldest daughter is 2 and her youngest daughter is 1

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
madhatter

Madi M.

That's so crazy!! I'm not even doing a shower. This is my first and she's the first grandbaby ever for my parents. We are doing a registry because we do have a lot of family from out of state but we still don't even expect anything for our first. Other than clothes and her infant carseat/stroller all our big baby items are gender neutral. That way I can save the pack n play, bouncer, rock n play, swing, etc. I didn't want to have to worry about those things twice. Anything I can store and keep we are.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

now I’m being called jealous and getting rude ass replies from some of these moms 🙄

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
heatherlou88

Heather

I know ppl who have them, even if they're the same gender and close in age. I personally didn't have a 2nd one but I did get like 90 gifts from my church family & hubby's family/my family, which was so nice♡♡

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

Gifts are a totally different thing lol but having a full blown baby shower especially when no one came to ur second is kinda weird in my opinion

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mom.uncensored

💛

I’m just here for the comments

Отметок «Нравится»: 5
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

exactly!!!!!!

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

@makeupmomplustwo_, i deleted comments that had ride replies

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

there’s no excuse to leaving a child alone in a car 🤦🏻‍♀️ people try to justify everything

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
dope.ass.mom

Nikki

Well this escalated fast 😳

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

Honestly.

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
delete-please

Delete Please.

I get what you mean because I know a girl who has a baby literally every year and throws a huge baby shower each time. I understand wanting to celebrate each baby which I definitely agree with but asking for lots of gifts each time is like taking advantage of friends and family. I’m not saying small little gifts like bottles and diapers. This girl registry be full of expensive stuff strollers, car seats, cribs, expensive brands of clothes. I think if you want to have multiple showers you shouldn’t expect expensive items people have already bought you less than a year ago... I just don’t go when she invites me but it doesn’t bother me lol if her friends and family want to buy her those things every year that’s up to them.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

Exactly!! Which is what I’m trying to say but everyone wants to take everything out of context. If she wants to ask for things then make a registry but she’s literally throwing a baby shower and paying for a venue and buying food and drinks like why not spend that on ur child instead of throwing yourself a baby shower? She has a registry and is throwing a baby shower asking for diapers and stuff. Like all that money ur spending on the baby shower could be used for the things you are asking for. She asks for baby formula to even after she has her kids.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
delete-please

Delete Please.

I get what you mean girl. Anytime someone doesn’t agree with something everyone always thinks they’re hating lol.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

@alicianoelle, and now they are salty I deleted their comments lol

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mommy3kings1queen

Des

I had a baby shower for all 4 of my kids but we never ask for gifts it's just basically food and cake to celebrate I guess it's more like a get together lol

Отметок «Нравится»: 2
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

See that’s totally different! This girl has a long ass list of things she wants

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
mommy3kings1queen

Des

@courtney017 oh no I see what you mean that's ridiculous

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

I don't see nothing wrong with it. Every baby should be celebrated.

Отметок «Нравится»: 1
courtney017

Courtney

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (13 нед.)

Celebrated yes but asking for mass amounts of gifts and having a registry is a little much

Отметок «Нравится»: 0
householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

probably so I never did registry I don't follow them when I buy shower gifts either

Отметок «Нравится»: 1